AboutAnalisa Expertise Questions related to Swinging i.e. Why did you choose to become a swinger, He/She wants
to but I have doubts, How to begin/get started, What is the purpose of swinging, Why
would you become a swinger, Should we/shouldn't we, Rules (Are/Aren't they needed,
What should they be, What should be non-negotiable, What can be compromised, What to
do if rules are ignored or broken), House vs. private parties, Resources to locate other
swingers, What does it mean to take one for the team
Questions we can't answer: Any alternative sexual questions other than swinging, i.e.
Bestiality, Gang Banging, anything to do with minors, B/D or S&M, toilet games, etc. We also don't feel proficient in answering in depth relationship questions, we are not marriage/relationship counselors, if we receive a question that falls into that category we will refer you to seek professional help.
Experience Over 10 years in the Lifestyle, numerous events & encounters (some pleasant & enjoyable and others that were less than)
Organizations NASCA, Good Vibrations, C4P
Education/Credentials Both of us are college educated professionals.
Tom writes on 2008-06-23 18:31:10
my wife and I swung during the first 5 years we were married. I thought I could handle my wife being with another man, I could and at the same time could'nt.Jealousy played a game with me. The thought will always be in your husbands mind are you having more pleasure with the other guy than him.
Cherubino writes on 2008-09-11 00:01:09
The appeal centers around sperm competition and involves simple supply and demand dynamics with respect to reproductive resources. The less perceived access to mating opportunities with a beloved wife, whom is deemed very adaptive from the reproductive perspective, the higher the value of mating opportunities with her in general. The demand is high, because she's seen as adaptive, but the supply decreases, so the value (price willing to pay) increases. This is why husbands get more turned on by ..... more
