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Expert: Analisa Date: 6/20/2008 Subject: single at club
Question I will be going on a business trip to Cincinnati and there is swinger clubs in near by dayton my question is, in clubs in general does single guys get any action at swinger clubs have been in lifetstyle for a year but always used craigslist, don't want to waste time or money if chances of me (nice looking, 6 feet tall and fit) will not get action due to me going to club alone.just asking for you expirience and thoughts.
Answer Talax,
Unfortunately all I have are some old sayings in response . . . So here goes, single guys in the LifeStyle are like fleas on a dog and lots of them, with that said even a blind sow finds an acorn once in a while.
In our experience we have found if we are going someplace we've never been before we usually try to contact someone via email first to arrange a meeting via dinner/drinks. This increases our chance of hook-up.
Might I also suggest a website for you that offers free membership (with some limitations of course) for people to try in the hopes that they will eventually sign up. Clubforeplay.com here is a referral # for you to use if you should so choose. (13442)
If nothing else consider this more of a chance to network with future contacts.
Hope this helps, let me know if you have any further questions.
