Adult Swinging/swinging with a platonic friend

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Expert: Analisa - 6/12/2008


Question
A female friend and I are considering going to a swingers club as a couple (mainly because it is much easier to get in).  Is it likely that we can then "play" independently without being a couple?  We are both very attractive, educated, etc.

Answer
Joe,

The first thing you might want to know is that the LifeStyle is NOT about misleading people, you might find people get really angry being mislead.

So go as friends, just check it out for a fun time but, be upfront and honest when people ask questions about the two of you.

As far as 'getting lucky' at a club we've never attended before? that is beyond my abilities to predict.

Good Luck,
Analisa

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Over 10 years in the Lifestyle, numerous events & encounters (some pleasant & enjoyable and others that were less than)

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NASCA, Good Vibrations, C4P

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Both of us are college educated professionals.

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