Expert: Analisa - 7/23/2008

Question
Analisa - I've read a few of your responses and have enjoyed your insight and recommendations.  In several answers you talk about the use of condoms and that it is a requirement for you and your husband for safety.  

Does this also apply to oral sex with another male?

My wife fantasizes about giving oral sex to a male while engaged with me or another woman.  She enjoys the taste and feel, which is not possible with a condom.  Please advise.

Thank you.

Answer
Dear Phil,

When I discuss condoms I am simply sharing a point of view that my husband & I have: While this is all fun, there is no point in dying over it.

With that said we realize that nothing is 100% effective in preventing STDs (other than abstinence and if you are asking questions under this topic then that is not an option for you either).

For each couple/or person what their preference is, is what they should be doing. I personally do not go to "completion" with oral sex on men other than my husband but, that is simply my preference. The only thing I can really recommend is for you & your wife to discuss the pros & cons and truly consider any risks involved. What your preferences are will guide your final  decision.

Final thought, this LifeStyle is about enjoyment, fun & pleasure. If this is something that provides your wife with pleasure then by all means pursue that, we simply recommend ensuring each other's safety while we are having that fun.

Thank-you for the compliment & hope this helps,
Analisa