Question About 2 months ago, my 21 year old neighbor couple introduced me to the swinging lifestyle. I have enjoyed it very much, having sex with them at least once a week. Since the beginning of this her boyfriend and I have always came inside her when having sex, we never use condoms. However, my question goes to the fact that recently I have been going down and eating her out and cleaning up both his and my cum, and I love it. sometimes I go down right after he cums and eat it out and then I cum in her and eat it out, other times I cum in her with his in there, and then clean it up. Last week we had a little orgy with the three of us, and 2 other guys, and I eat all the guys cum out of her. I am not gay at all, but it seems weird to me that i enjoy eating their cum out of her so much. Is this a normal part of swinging? Should straight guys enjoy this so much? And do alot of swinging couples allow other guys to cum inside the female like this? Just curious to your answers.
Answer Nick,
One of the main precepts of the swinging LifeStyle is to do what you enjoy. If you enjoy this who is to say whether it is right or wrong.
As far as partying bareback (no condoms), every couple has their own preferences. You will meet people who will not party without protection and you will meet people who will not party if condoms are to be used. Again, it is each person's preference that defines their actions.
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