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I'm an 18 year old girl and I'm in a monogamous relationship with my boyfriend. Recently, me and my boyfriend were talking about our fantasies and I told him that I've always fantasized about being in a gangbang, exactly like the girl in my favorite porn video. Here's the link to my favorite porn video:
http://youporn.com/watch/2060
I showed my boyfriend this video and I told him that I think the girl in the video is really lucky and that I would do anything to be in her position. I told him that I just don't wanna fantasize about it and I plan to be in a gangbang exactly like that at least once in my life. My boyfriend knows how much I love sucking dick and that I really love the smell and taste of dicks (my favorite type of sex is sucking a boy's dick). So, my boyfriend told me that he wants to help me carry out my fantasy by making our relationship open. He said that he would gather up as many guys as he can and ask them to gangbang me. I'm okay with what he's suggesting except for one thing. I'm not sure that I want us to have an open relationship and be allowed to have sex with other people. I wanna just be in a gangbang and we can go back to being in a monogamous relationship. My boyfriend thinks that it'll be weird having sex with other people unless we're in an open relationship. So, can I have sex with other guys once without making our relationship open? I guess my real question is... Is it common for couples to have sex with other people once without being in an open relationship?
Fatima,
To answer your question:
'Is it common for couples to have sex with other people once without being in an open relationship?'
The answer is in the swinging lifestyle, No! Swinging is all about having an "open" relationship.
Analisa
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Questions related to Swinging i.e. Why did you choose to become a swinger, He/She wants to but I have doubts, How to begin/get started, What is the purpose of swinging, Why would you become a swinger, Should we/shouldn't we, Rules (Are/Aren't they needed, What should they be, What should be non-negotiable, What can be compromised, What to do if rules are ignored or broken), House vs. private parties, Resources to locate other swingers, What does it mean to take one for the team Questions we can't answer: Any alternative sexual questions other than swinging, i.e. Bestiality, Gang Banging, anything to do with minors, B/D or S&M, toilet games, etc. We also don't feel proficient in answering in depth relationship questions, we are not marriage/relationship counselors, if we receive a question that falls into that category we will refer you to seek professional help.
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