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Analisa,
I am an attractive successful guy. I am also single. It is a fantasy of mine to have a mmf threesome. How do I get started? I would be a total gentleman and be completely discreet if need be. I just think that it would be incredibly exhilarating to share a woman with another man. I would be mindful of what they want from the experience and of their feelings. Is this impossible for a single man?
Thanks,
Steve
Steve,
I have good news & bad news.
The good news is there are several swingers sights that would welcome a respectful single man, who knows how to be discreet www.clubforeplay.com (use referal #13442), swappernet, Adultfriendfinders and there are several others.
The bad news is there are LOTS of single guys out there so the way to set yourself apart from all the rest is to make certain you are always completely discreet and always a gentleman and work very hard to set yourself apart from the crowd.
I hope this helps,
Analisa
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Over 10 years in the Lifestyle, numerous events & encounters (some pleasant & enjoyable and others that were less than)
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NASCA, Good Vibrations, C4P
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