AboutAnalisa Expertise Questions related to Swinging i.e. Why did you choose to become a swinger, He/She wants
to but I have doubts, How to begin/get started, What is the purpose of swinging, Why
would you become a swinger, Should we/shouldn't we, Rules (Are/Aren't they needed,
What should they be, What should be non-negotiable, What can be compromised, What to
do if rules are ignored or broken), House vs. private parties, Resources to locate other
swingers, What does it mean to take one for the team
Questions we can't answer: Any alternative sexual questions other than swinging, i.e.
Bestiality, Gang Banging, anything to do with minors, B/D or S&M, toilet games, etc. We also don't feel proficient in answering in depth relationship questions, we are not marriage/relationship counselors, if we receive a question that falls into that category we will refer you to seek professional help.
Experience Over 10 years in the Lifestyle, numerous events & encounters (some pleasant & enjoyable and others that were less than)
Organizations NASCA, Good Vibrations, C4P
Education/Credentials Both of us are college educated professionals.
Question My husband and I have been wanting to have a threesome with another woman. I'm not exactly sure what swinging is but I'm hoping it's in some way related to what I have a question about. My husband and I have had a threesome before with a friend of mine that I no longer speak to because of unrelated reasons. But my question is how would we go about finding a woman who would want to do this with us? Thank you for your time.
Answer Whit,
My best recommendation for the two of you is to join one of my favorite sites for swingers (clubforeplay.com referral #13442) and build a profile with all your preferences and then search the profiles around you (based on your zip code) for a single bi-female. This way the person you get at knows there are rules in place and understands what is expected of her.
You will be able to see her profile, any pictures she has posted of herself, chat with her in advance, ask her any questions you might have and advise her in advance of your ground rules.
