AboutAnalisa Expertise Questions related to Swinging i.e. Why did you choose to become a swinger, He/She wants
to but I have doubts, How to begin/get started, What is the purpose of swinging, Why
would you become a swinger, Should we/shouldn't we, Rules (Are/Aren't they needed,
What should they be, What should be non-negotiable, What can be compromised, What to
do if rules are ignored or broken), House vs. private parties, Resources to locate other
swingers, What does it mean to take one for the team
Questions we can't answer: Any alternative sexual questions other than swinging, i.e.
Bestiality, Gang Banging, anything to do with minors, B/D or S&M, toilet games, etc. We also don't feel proficient in answering in depth relationship questions, we are not marriage/relationship counselors, if we receive a question that falls into that category we will refer you to seek professional help.
Experience Over 10 years in the Lifestyle, numerous events & encounters (some pleasant & enjoyable and others that were less than)
Organizations NASCA, Good Vibrations, C4P
Education/Credentials Both of us are college educated professionals.
Question Hi,
Thanks for taking my question. My husband and I have been in the "lifestyle" for a while now. But we have only had threesomes and been with other couples. We are planning on going to a swingers club this weekend that has a room for group play. We have never been involved in an orgy. The whole idea really excites me. The first question I have is what should we wear? Should I wear revealing clothes? Skirt, bra? Next, I am hoping to have sex with multiple partners, hopefully at the same time. Should I expect the men to change condoms before having sex with me after another woman? I just want to be safe and have great sex. Thanks for all your help.
Sarah
Answer Sarah,
Wear whatever you feel most comfortable wearing. If you feel more confident in revealing clothes then, GO FOR IT!
As far as changing condoms, ABSOLUTELY! The whole point of safe sex is staying safe. It's like those people at Subway who take money with their gloves on or wipe down surfaces with their gloves on and then go make your sandwich. The gloves aren't there to keep their hands clean but, to keep your food clean!
Finally, have a great time, wish we could join you.
