Expert: Leesa - 3/26/2009

Question
My fiancee and I have been together for 5 years. About 6 months ago we started using sex toys and fantasizing about a threesome. We discussed a threesome ongoing for almost a month it was all we could talk about then stopped. We have recently got the sex toys back out and started talking about it again. She says she wants a to see me with another woman and is bi curious. I am not bi curious and want a man involved. Then a foursome with another couple has came to my mind. And we both have admitted we would like to see one another with another person.Would there be more pleasure in a foursome than threesome?

Answer
hi there
Thanks for your question
Can i suggest to you that it depends on what you are looking for.
We have had many fun times with both threesomes and couples.
The only downfall i find is sometimes finding the right couple.
It is so much easier to have fun with one person than trying to negotiate 2 others.
Sometimes you find that it is  not about you but about the other couple.
One of the partners might get stuck with a soft one while you hubby is fucking the other couples partner with a hardon...if that is the case..take your partner back and let her have the soft one..lol
So we seem to go for singles more , as it is then about us and satisfying one person not 2.
Hope that helped