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I am the owner of Australia's first and only Council approved swingers club with my hubby Bryan. We have been on the scene for over 17 years. Owned a club for 4 years and love and live the lifestyle daily.I have extensive knowledge of the lifestyle and how it can affect your relationship or enhance your relationship. My hubby and I are lucky enough to own our own club and we meet hundreds of patrons every week, some make the lifestyle choice, others find it is not for them. The whole lifestyle is about communication and you should never enter into it, unless you both are prepared and know that is only about YOU 2 as a couple and not one of you singular. Ask me your questions i am happy to give you some of my knowledge and hope that you too explore this wonderful lifestyle to see just how fantastic it really is. It is not all about sex. Leesa

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Adult Swinging - Threesome of foursome?


Expert: Leesa - 3/26/2009

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My fiancee and I have been together for 5 years. About 6 months ago we started using sex toys and fantasizing about a threesome. We discussed a threesome ongoing for almost a month it was all we could talk about then stopped. We have recently got the sex toys back out and started talking about it again. She says she wants a to see me with another woman and is bi curious. I am not bi curious and want a man involved. Then a foursome with another couple has came to my mind. And we both have admitted we would like to see one another with another person.Would there be more pleasure in a foursome than threesome?

Answer
hi there
Thanks for your question
Can i suggest to you that it depends on what you are looking for.
We have had many fun times with both threesomes and couples.
The only downfall i find is sometimes finding the right couple.
It is so much easier to have fun with one person than trying to negotiate 2 others.
Sometimes you find that it is  not about you but about the other couple.
One of the partners might get stuck with a soft one while you hubby is fucking the other couples partner with a hardon...if that is the case..take your partner back and let her have the soft one..lol
So we seem to go for singles more , as it is then about us and satisfying one person not 2.
Hope that helped

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