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I am the owner of Australia's first and only Council approved swingers club with my hubby Bryan. We have been on the scene for over 17 years. Owned a club for 4 years and love and live the lifestyle daily.I have extensive knowledge of the lifestyle and how it can affect your relationship or enhance your relationship. My hubby and I are lucky enough to own our own club and we meet hundreds of patrons every week, some make the lifestyle choice, others find it is not for them. The whole lifestyle is about communication and you should never enter into it, unless you both are prepared and know that is only about YOU 2 as a couple and not one of you singular. Ask me your questions i am happy to give you some of my knowledge and hope that you too explore this wonderful lifestyle to see just how fantastic it really is. It is not all about sex. Leesa

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Expert: Leesa - 4/2/2009

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Hi i am married for a couple of years and we love each other.My wife used to have great sex curiosity which is dying now.I have observed when she chat online she gets hot.While doing sex i talk about other guys and she likes it but asks me if i can handle it.I want her to drink,smoke and expose herself in sexy clothes,go to nightclubs.How should i make her agree on this?

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Hi
Thanks for your question.
I must say that you should never try and MAKE your wife do anything she doesnt want to do.
Our lifestyle is about communication and understanding and respect.
If you force your wife into doing something that she does not want to do you will destroy what you have.
Can i suggest you go to the chatroom and participate with your wife, have sex on cam maybe , join her with her fantasties while she is on cam, i find this really hot and it is very harmless if done together.
Then go from there, take it step by step, talk and commmunicate and watch the boundries change slowly over time.
hope that helps
Leesa

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