About Leesa Expertise I am the owner of Australia's first and only Council approved swingers club with my hubby Bryan.
We have been on the scene for over 17 years.
Owned a club for 4 years and love and live the lifestyle daily.I have extensive knowledge of the lifestyle and how it can affect your relationship or enhance your relationship.
My hubby and I are lucky enough to own our own club and we meet hundreds of patrons every week, some make the lifestyle choice, others find it is not for them.
The whole lifestyle is about communication and you should never enter into it, unless you both are prepared and know that is only about YOU 2 as a couple and not one of you singular.
Ask me your questions i am happy to give you some of my knowledge and hope that you too explore this wonderful lifestyle to see just how fantastic it really is.
It is not all about sex.
Leesa
Experience As above
Organizations couples international is our club in brisbane australia.
Education/Credentials building designers by day, swing club owners by night
Question I’m a military husband and out on a deployment, reserves!
So normally am always home, but a month ago while having cyber sex with my wife!
I had told her I wanted to have a threesome, she automatically said no! That it would never happen! Her thinking I was talking about another woman! But when I told her a wanted another man in the mix! I could tell she would like it! She had mentioned she liked the whole gang bang/ MFM while shopping for some porno movies! And we talked about it thoroughly the next following days! I feel like I need to talk to someone but kind of an extreme conversation to start up with some body!
So things we talked about are:
She mentioned the way I will see her after everything is said and done!
What if he has a bigger penis than I do!
What if she likes sex with the other guy more!
She says I’m very territorial! lol
We talked about the boundaries, and we really didn’t have any!
Is that weird?
I was only concerned about anal sex with my wife, because we only recently started to explore that. So I wouldn’t want her getting hurt, but she says she’s been practicing. I think it would me so hot for her to be having sex with another man!
Just to see her in action! When I’m having sex with her I cant really watch cause I’m right there. It just like when I taught her to drive stick shift just so I can see my car being driven! Outside looking in I guess!
I love her more than anything I think this would be great, she does too!
I’m very secure about our relationship.
I’m big 7 ½ inches, not the biggest, but it’s always up there!
We have an awesome sex life, were constantly in bed together, or were ever!
I’m just anxious to come home already!
Did I missing anything? Just want feedback! Good feed back!
Answer Hey there
I am pleased you chose me to answer this question, i will need to tell you a bit about what i do and we do as a couple to be able to make you aware of the extent of what happens in this sort of instance.
I dont usually tell people about ourselves,but i feel it is important to do this to help you.
Bryan ( my hubby) and I ( Leesa ) are in a polyamory relationship, that is where there is 3 of us. MMF, and we spend most of our time together and i am the center of attention. I fuck John ( boyfriend) all the time and most of the time without bryan there and sometimes with the 3 of us.
It is the hottest relationship you can imagine Just last night i was fucked with a basball bat by him, as we talked about me fucking gear sticks and other naughty stuff that i have done with my hubby.
I then come home to my husband and he fucks me so hard while i tell him what i just did with John. I have never had sex like i do with my 2 guys ever with anyone in my life. Sex with John is foreplay for the best sex in the world with my hubby. Sometimes the three of us get together and go nuts...bondage,arse fucking and much more.
We have a wonderful relationship and talk and go out to together so it is not only sex, but friends and emotional too.
You must remember that we have been together for over 18 years though.
So the bottome line is that Bryan ( hubby) and I have boundries, we talk like you to do all the time. I know what i am allowed to do when he is not with me while i fuck john, and i share it all with him when i see him. Communication is the greatest tool between Bryan and I that allows me to have a hot and horny sex life with my 2 guys.
All 3 of us talk constantly about how we feel and what is going on.
If you want to start having another guy in your bed. watching is the hottest turn on ever. To see your wife turned on and fucked by another man is the horniest and hottest thing you can imagine. It works becuase YOU both have decided to do it. Dont let the guy stay over ever.....not yet anyhow... Simply use him as a tool and foreplay for You and Your wife , when he goes hold her and tell her how hot it was to watch, and then make love to her or Fuck her whilst taking about all the things you watched and saw in her ear while you fuck her. Trust me you will be in heaven and have the Best sex that you can possibly imagine.....
Anal sex.....I personally love it...but the timing must be right.
You wont hurt her, just be gentle to start and allow her to push you on to your cock, leave your cock just resting in the opening of her arse. tell her to push back when she wants more. Use sorbelene or baby oil as most lubes burn.....trust me on that one....lol
Soon after she has been doggy style on your cock for a little bit , you will feel her push back more and more , be patient.
Soon she will be pushing back harder and harder and tell her to play with her clit while you are doing this.
In no time,,she will be giving you an indication to just simply fuck her arse hard....and that is your indication to pound.
Remeber to always make sure she is comfy, at any time she seems to tighten up. ask her is she is okay. But truly, the last thing i want when i am being fucked in the arse, is for someone to be saying to me all the time...you ok....i just wanna breathe and focus and be fucked and if it hurts i will tell them
Omg i think i have told you way too much, now i am horny..lol
Hope hat all helps you and please let me know if you need any further questions answered.
Leesa
