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I am the owner of Australia's first and only Council approved swingers club with my hubby Bryan. We have been on the scene for over 17 years. Owned a club for 4 years and love and live the lifestyle daily.I have extensive knowledge of the lifestyle and how it can affect your relationship or enhance your relationship. My hubby and I are lucky enough to own our own club and we meet hundreds of patrons every week, some make the lifestyle choice, others find it is not for them. The whole lifestyle is about communication and you should never enter into it, unless you both are prepared and know that is only about YOU 2 as a couple and not one of you singular. Ask me your questions i am happy to give you some of my knowledge and hope that you too explore this wonderful lifestyle to see just how fantastic it really is. It is not all about sex. Leesa

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Adult Swinging - How do I get my partner interested!


Expert: Leesa - 5/14/2009

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Hi Leesa,

I am really interested in having sex with my partner whilst being watched.  I have been trying to see if she would be interested in going to your club (although I haven't really said it as I am just testing the waters) but she glosses over it.  I don't know how to bring it up properly.  She seems to brush any of my attempts to spice up our sex life and I am getting quite bored.  I love her, but she needs to take my feelings and needs into account and I am not sure how to get around the wall she has built up.

Thank you for your help.

Answer
Hi there
Sorry for the delay in answering i have been away.
Please dont ever push your wife or it wont happen
Just sit down together and read our site from top to bottom.
There is a section there about US down the lhs of the homepage. It explains about our first experience at swinging club and how great it was for us a couple to explore our boundries and to enhance our sex.
It is not all about swapping tell her, it is about going out somewhere together and enjoying eachothers company and maybe seeing things that may turn you on as a couple.
it is not sleeazy and not full of naked old men wanking off as the common misconception is lead to believe.
Bryan and I have gone to extreme lengths to make the club a comfortable place and somewhere where you and your wife can come and feel safe and comfy without the hassles of nightclub crap like in the city.
tell her to call me and have a chat i am always happy and proud to chat about what we have created.
leesa
0411080011
couplesinternational.com.au is our site.

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