About Leesa Expertise I am the owner of Australia's first and only Council approved swingers club with my hubby Bryan.
We have been on the scene for over 17 years.
Owned a club for 4 years and love and live the lifestyle daily.I have extensive knowledge of the lifestyle and how it can affect your relationship or enhance your relationship.
My hubby and I are lucky enough to own our own club and we meet hundreds of patrons every week, some make the lifestyle choice, others find it is not for them.
The whole lifestyle is about communication and you should never enter into it, unless you both are prepared and know that is only about YOU 2 as a couple and not one of you singular.
Ask me your questions i am happy to give you some of my knowledge and hope that you too explore this wonderful lifestyle to see just how fantastic it really is.
It is not all about sex.
Leesa
Experience As above
Organizations couples international is our club in brisbane australia.
Education/Credentials building designers by day, swing club owners by night
Question Any tips on how to set aside morals imbedded to engage in a exciting sexual lifestyle. Fear counters many and that is where we find ourselves as previously our relationship was challenged by infidelity with a close friend. My husband /I am excited thus exploring possibility via websites and playing with new toys. It is a goal to enhance what we have with the wilder side of life. Considering this the greatest hold back is my personal bodily perception. (sz18) What are your tips in building self confidence to take the start step and counter the little green monster in women. We so want to play....
Answer Hi there
Sorry for the delay in my response to you i have been away.
Swinging is an awesome experience for a self assured and confident couple.
The lifestyle should be about you @ and no one else.
Body image is not a problem, we are all happy to be who ever we are, and beauty is in all shapes and sizes please feel comfortable that you are in the lifstyle for you and your partner and not what others think or percieve you to be.
You will gain confidence and explore boundries that you have never done or ecplored before and your self image will grow and you will feel beautiful and wanted at the least.
Swinging is not all about sex.
It is about communication and growing together throughout the experience with your partner.
take it slow, set up rules and boundries with each other and talk, talk, talk.
When you go to your first party make sure your rules are set, No or Yes. These answers are very important to each other, never say i dont care,,,,that is NO.....
At your first party dont play, go with no intentions, and simply sit back and enjoy watching as a couple. If you go home and have the best sex ever from watching what has gone on,then you both have achieved a wonderful milestone in your life together, as most couples only use the clubs for foreplay for themselves.
So after all, remember that the lifestyle is about @ of you and no one else, enjoy it and only do what YOU BOTH are confortable with.
Leesa
