About Leesa Expertise I am the owner of Australia's first and only Council approved swingers club with my hubby Bryan.
We have been on the scene for over 17 years.
Owned a club for 4 years and love and live the lifestyle daily.I have extensive knowledge of the lifestyle and how it can affect your relationship or enhance your relationship.
My hubby and I are lucky enough to own our own club and we meet hundreds of patrons every week, some make the lifestyle choice, others find it is not for them.
The whole lifestyle is about communication and you should never enter into it, unless you both are prepared and know that is only about YOU 2 as a couple and not one of you singular.
Ask me your questions i am happy to give you some of my knowledge and hope that you too explore this wonderful lifestyle to see just how fantastic it really is.
It is not all about sex.
Leesa
Experience As above
Organizations couples international is our club in brisbane australia.
Education/Credentials building designers by day, swing club owners by night
Question First let me thank you for your advice.
I have one question for you...
If a couple ( straight guy and bi-curious woman) are looking for a couple or a single woman to play with, I totally understand that both of them need to approve of the people they play with. But as a bi curious woman, is the woman entitled to approve them more than the guy?
Cos she will be playing with the woman and the guy if they go for a couple.
And if they go for a single woman, then she has to be comfortable with the woman being involved with her guy sexually.
Right?
so does a woman's approval comes before the guy's?
Or is it more important than the guys?
Answer Hi
In answer to your question, Everyone has to be comfortable with everything each of the persons do.
If anyone is not comfy with any thing it should not progress.
Usually a single lady is here at our club for the single guys, single ladies are not always interested in being with married men, or couples so you are better off with a couple.
A lot of couples the ladies are happy to play while the guys watch.
Sometimes you might get a couple that lets the lady only play with another couple etc, but that is all worked out before the play starts.
Always talk about exactly what you want or expect, dont ever go into a room expecting something you have not discussed previously with the person or couple you are going off with.
Both parties must agree to all aspects of play.
Playing should never be that important that you break a couple rule to do it. If it is , you simply should not be playing.
There is only one answer to your questions, Yes or No, a whatever, when asked about playing simply means NO>
Dont ever do anything that one or the other is uncomfy with, this is bound to lead to problems, and it is simply not that important to have sex with others.
leesa
