Expert: Analisa - 6/29/2009

Question
i am 30 and my wife is 22, we are very open minded, one day i suggested to bring my friend to my wife, finally she agreed, she had a real fun with my friend, i was happy of looking my wife having sex with others,,,, after that i bought few my friends,,,, very fantastic,, fantastic,,,next is we met few couples. we enjoyed o lot,, all were together, but my wife doesn't like me having sex with another women why?
with all this i like to sniff used panties, wife knows that,,not the girls i met,, my wife once help me to bring her office girls used panty,, i sniff and masturbate in front of my wife,, she helped me,, but she is telling its abnormal, is it true? but still she help me to find panties
my 3rd question is i like to show my penis to girls while i masturbate,, sometimes i showed to the girls who are behind my house (not fully openly)when they bathing i use to do it,, wife disagreed,, one day she help me, after that she asked me to stop, but i need to do it. from school times i used to do it, because of that i had to hide this thing to my wife, is it wrong? pls tell me
also i told my wife to have a loving partner,, finally she found one, showed me the photo, but my desire is lookig my wife having sex,, but this case she asked me not to invole, she likes that boy,, he is a teenager, i gave permission to have sex twise a month, but i like to watch, she begged me not to ask for that only. with other my friends she allows me to watch.. remember she loves me a lot, whenever she wants to meet  her boy ,she gets full permission from me,, she never cheats me , never, why she is not letting me to watch? i gave permission to go out with him only,,, why? why?
my last question is she likes to swallow perms,semen
we slept with more than 20 couples, every time she used to drink it,, with all my friends altogether 50,, she like to suck and drink,, is it harmfull ? pls reply me with your valued advices  

Answer
Sameera,

I will try to answer all of your questions but, when you ask me why your wife behaves or feels a certain way I cannot know, only she can. So the answers to those questions would only be speculation.

Q.1: my wife doesn't like me having sex with another women why?
A.1: As I said I can only guess, she could be afraid of losing you or she could be afraid you will like the other women better than her.

Q.2: but she is telling its abnormal, is it true?
A.2: No, Sameera, this is just different NOT abnormal, everyone is interested in something different than the person next to them. Besides, can she define what is "normal"?

Q.3: because of that i had to hide this thing to my wife, is it wrong?
A.3: What is wrong is your wife telling you not to do the things that are pleasurable. She may be trying to protect you from being arrested for exposing yourself in public. It is too bad that your wife can't help you with this like she helps with the panties.

Q.4: why she is not letting me to watch? i gave permission to go out with him only,,, why? why?
A.4: Again, I can only guess, have you tried asking her "why?", she is really the only person who can answer this question, I can only speculate that there may be feelings involved with the boy or she is afraid that he won't stay with her if you watch or if he finds out that you know. It might scare him away.

Q.5:  is it harmful?
A.5: It is only harmful if any of the men have a venereal disease, have HIV (AIDS) or any other blood born diseases as she could become infected when she drinks the sperm. Otherwise no, sperm is not harmful to be swallowed.

Hope this helps,
Analisa