Expert: Analisa - 7/28/2009

Question
My wife and I are in out 20-ies, married for one year and decided to try swinging. We decided to meet mature experienced couple and met a lovely couple in their 60-ies (been married for 30+ years with 4 adult children). Both are very horny and "potent".

We meet once per fortnight for one or 2 days on the weekend (now for 6 months) and have a lot of great sex (wife swapping) as well as  lesbian activities between wives.

But something changed last week. While the other man and I were watching women having lesbian fun, he told me he is bi and likes occasional sex with young men and likes me. My wife told me it is fine if I want to try. Then with full support from our wives, he processed to kiss me deep, then oral, then had anal with me(I received) . I did enjoy it a lot and my wife too. She was so horny and told me she likes what we did and we can do any time. Next day, we tried again but this time I had anal with him (giving).

Both my wife and I are happy what happened and will do  it again next week.

am I just curious, or bi, or gay?? I do not worry about it as my wife is supportive and enjoys our sex life and sex with other couple and the other couple are nice and friendly to us.

so I don't worry but am just wondering if I am bi or gay as I never thought I will have sex with a man.

Danny

Answer
Danny,

Here are questions for you to answer for yourself (I don't need the answers).
Did you enjoy yourself?
Are you still attracted to your wife?
Do you find women to be attractive sexual beings?
Are you now suddenly only attracted to men?

If your answers are yes, yes, yes, no, then I would guess you have discovered a bi-side to your sexuality.
If your answers are yes, no, no, yes, then I would guess you have realized a latent gay tendency.

Hope this helps,
Analisa