About Leesa Expertise I am the owner of Australia's first and only Council approved swingers club with my hubby Bryan.
We have been on the scene for over 17 years.
Owned a club for 4 years and love and live the lifestyle daily.I have extensive knowledge of the lifestyle and how it can affect your relationship or enhance your relationship.
My hubby and I are lucky enough to own our own club and we meet hundreds of patrons every week, some make the lifestyle choice, others find it is not for them.
The whole lifestyle is about communication and you should never enter into it, unless you both are prepared and know that is only about YOU 2 as a couple and not one of you singular.
Ask me your questions i am happy to give you some of my knowledge and hope that you too explore this wonderful lifestyle to see just how fantastic it really is.
It is not all about sex.
Leesa
Experience As above
Organizations couples international is our club in brisbane australia.
Education/Credentials building designers by day, swing club owners by night
Question My husband and I have been talking about swinging for a long time....I was wondering how to deal with the morning after? Is sex between us still special?
Answer Before you enter the swinging lifestyle make sure you have set your rules.
No one should defer from the rules. If you decide to continue and play with others, make sure it is all about you 2 and not the other couple or single.
If at any stage you feel uncomfortable in the situation SIOP, as it is simply not that important to have sex with others.
The lifestyle is all about you 2 as a couple never go to a party or house party with any expectations, but if it happens it happens, and make sure you both stick to your rules.
Never take a Whatever as a yes, the rules are simply no or yes if you want to play.
Leave the room if either of you is comfortable as there is no need to continue.
The morning after should be so special for you both. You see, you make love to your husband, and you use the others simply as a tool to enhance your relationship.
Never take phone numbers, never get attached or emotionally attached to someone, the lifestyle is about 2 of you and no one else.
Hope that helps.
Leesa
