AboutAnalisa Expertise Questions related to Swinging i.e. Why did you choose to become a swinger, He/She wants
to but I have doubts, How to begin/get started, What is the purpose of swinging, Why
would you become a swinger, Should we/shouldn't we, Rules (Are/Aren't they needed,
What should they be, What should be non-negotiable, What can be compromised, What to
do if rules are ignored or broken), House vs. private parties, Resources to locate other
swingers, What does it mean to take one for the team
Questions we can't answer: Any alternative sexual questions other than swinging, i.e.
Bestiality, Gang Banging, anything to do with minors, B/D or S&M, toilet games, etc. We also don't feel proficient in answering in depth relationship questions, we are not marriage/relationship counselors, if we receive a question that falls into that category we will refer you to seek professional help.
Experience Over 10 years in the Lifestyle, numerous events & encounters (some pleasant & enjoyable and others that were less than)
Organizations NASCA, Good Vibrations, C4P
Education/Credentials Both of us are college educated professionals.
Question Hello, my husband and I are thinking about swinging. How do we go about doing this? And is this against the law at all? I am in education so I don't want to get in any trouble what so ever in doing this. We would like to have a vanilla woman in her late 20's and bi so both of us can enjoy this. And where do we look for this?
Answer Dear Danelle,
I have a research website to recommend: www.nasca.com This is a great resource for questions regarding all things Swing Lifestyle related, including local clubs and FAQs.
As far as legal issues, not knowing where you live specifically and not being a lawyer, I must refrain from giving legal advice. As far as I know there are not any laws that specifically address this. With that said, since you are in education and we know several people who are, you need to be more concerned with the court of public opinion, i.e. you will need to exercise discretion.
As far as finding what you are looking for in playmates, we have a site we prefer over the many out there for a variety of reasons. Their discretion, the layout of the website, the ability to have a gallery for pictures that is password protected (great place for your face pictures) and the administrators are committed to an upscale and classier environment than most. www.clubforeplay.com (referral #13442 if you decide you want to join).
Lastly just to let you in on some of the "lingo", vanilla in the Lifestyle is how we refer to the rest of the world, i.e. people not in the Lifestyle.
