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Hey, So i was hoping for some advice. There is this guy that i really like who is engaged. He has shown interest in me as well. We have been talking for a few weeks now ( but i have know him about a year) having conversations. Lately he has been bringing-up have a threesome with me and his finance. I find her attractive, and she completely has known from the beginning that we have been talk and what we have been talking about. So basically they are both interested. I really want to try it but i am extremely nervous and i don't want to ruin there ( 5 year) relationship...Is it worth the risk?
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Samantha
Samantha,
While it is admirable that you are concerned for their relationship, your concern is misplaced. Whether or not their relationship survives is really their issue and if someone from outside (i.e. you) can "ruin" it then it wasn't that stable in the first place.
I would be more concerned about your relationship with them. If you feel that is rock steady then I would say go for it.
Hope this helps,
Analisa
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