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to but I have doubts, How to begin/get started, What is the purpose of swinging, Why
would you become a swinger, Should we/shouldn't we, Rules (Are/Aren't they needed,
What should they be, What should be non-negotiable, What can be compromised, What to
do if rules are ignored or broken), House vs. private parties, Resources to locate other
swingers, What does it mean to take one for the team
Questions we can't answer: Any alternative sexual questions other than swinging, i.e.
Bestiality, Gang Banging, anything to do with minors, B/D or S&M, toilet games, etc. We also don't feel proficient in answering in depth relationship questions, we are not marriage/relationship counselors, if we receive a question that falls into that category we will refer you to seek professional help.
Experience Over 10 years in the Lifestyle, numerous events & encounters (some pleasant & enjoyable and others that were less than)
Organizations NASCA, Good Vibrations, C4P
Education/Credentials Both of us are college educated professionals.
Question I am american man, 52, with a Filipina wife, 40. She has told me she is interested in getting together with other men. we don't live together, she is in the Philippines and I am in the US. We are in an open relationship and it works for us. But, I am an upcoming visit next month to spend my vacation with my wife. She wants us to swing with another guy and she would like to go to a swingers club or swingers hotel. We both have looked around on the internet for such a place, either in Boracay or Metro Manila. Can you please help us?
Answer Dear pinay american,
I went to the NASCA International website (www.nasca.com) and this was the only listing I could find for the Philipines:
Lifestyle Swing Club Manila: Bob & Linda, MCPO 4696, Makati City, Philippines; E-mail:firewithice@hotmail.com [3651]