Adult Swinging/wife is interested in swinging

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Expert: Analisa - 8/2/2009


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I am american man, 52, with a Filipina wife, 40.  She has told me she is interested in getting together with other men.  we don't live together, she is in the Philippines and I am in the US.  We are in an open relationship and it works for us.  But, I am an upcoming visit next month to spend my vacation with my wife.  She wants us to swing with another guy and she would like to go to a swingers club or swingers hotel.  We both have looked around on the internet for such a place, either in Boracay or Metro Manila.  Can you please help us?

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Dear pinay american,

I went to the NASCA International website (www.nasca.com) and this was the only listing I could find for the Philipines:
Lifestyle Swing Club Manila: Bob & Linda, MCPO 4696, Makati City, Philippines; E-mail:firewithice@hotmail.com [3651]

I would suggest simply googling "Lifestyle Swing Club Manila" or "Lifestyle Swing Club Philippines" that would probably give you more hits and list clubs that are not NASCA members. I got several here are a top few:
manila.swingtowns.com
http://www.swingers.net/getaways_sc.php?country=Philippines&&search=1
http://manila.olx.com.ph/swingers-manila-join-iid-4337323
http://www.clubsandparties.com/locations/philippines.html
http://www.connectexpress.com/~izzer/internationalclubs.html#philippines

Hope this helps,
Analisa

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