About Leesa Expertise I am the owner of Australia's first and only Council approved swingers club with my hubby Bryan.
We have been on the scene for over 17 years.
Owned a club for 4 years and love and live the lifestyle daily.I have extensive knowledge of the lifestyle and how it can affect your relationship or enhance your relationship.
My hubby and I are lucky enough to own our own club and we meet hundreds of patrons every week, some make the lifestyle choice, others find it is not for them.
The whole lifestyle is about communication and you should never enter into it, unless you both are prepared and know that is only about YOU 2 as a couple and not one of you singular.
Ask me your questions i am happy to give you some of my knowledge and hope that you too explore this wonderful lifestyle to see just how fantastic it really is.
It is not all about sex.
Leesa
Experience As above
Organizations couples international is our club in brisbane australia.
Education/Credentials building designers by day, swing club owners by night
Question Hello Leesa.
I would like to get my wife into swinging. She has not done it before, and I am trying to find a way to break the ice with her.I feel that she would enjoy it after her first experience. If I was to bring her to one of your couples nights, do you think it would scare her away, or do you feel there is a better way to approach this. She knows that I want to share her with other men.
We have just taken up dancing lessons and she is getting turned on just by dancing with another man. What do you think?
Sincerely...David
Answer Hi David,
Thanks for your email.
One thing to remember is that to never push your wife into the swinging side of it unless she and you both agree that it is what you want to do.
We have seen a few couple have issues because the husband wants the wife to do this and she only does it for him in the end and not for both of you.
You are welcome to come along to the club, remember it is just like a nightclub, there is no pressure and you dont have to do anything. You can watch get turned on and go home and have the best sex ever from what you have seen. It is not all swapping partners, but exploring avenues to enlighten your sex life as a couple. If then you decide to take the next step it is done with communication and heaps of rules between both parties , you and your wife
Remember on the scene NO one matters, other than you and your partner, always talk and talk about everything. We find that this lifestyle makes for better communcation between couples and opens up avenues you never thought you would ever encounter.
Hope to meet you both one day.
Leesa
