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to but I have doubts, How to begin/get started, What is the purpose of swinging, Why
would you become a swinger, Should we/shouldn't we, Rules (Are/Aren't they needed,
What should they be, What should be non-negotiable, What can be compromised, What to
do if rules are ignored or broken), House vs. private parties, Resources to locate other
swingers, What does it mean to take one for the team
Questions we can't answer: Any alternative sexual questions other than swinging, i.e.
Bestiality, Gang Banging, anything to do with minors, B/D or S&M, toilet games, etc. We also don't feel proficient in answering in depth relationship questions, we are not marriage/relationship counselors, if we receive a question that falls into that category we will refer you to seek professional help.
Experience Over 10 years in the Lifestyle, numerous events & encounters (some pleasant & enjoyable and others that were less than)
Organizations NASCA, Good Vibrations, C4P
Education/Credentials Both of us are college educated professionals.
Question Hi, I recently got my PAP test back and it is once again abnormal. It shows high risk HPV. I had the HPV in the past, but it cleared itself. My husband and I have been in lifestyle with me meeting single men for t he past ten years. He likes to watch so that is why we do it. I have told him I am not putting myself at risk anymore - he is so upset with me - even stated (I think he was joking) why not just have my cervix removed. I know I don't have cancer, but I also don't want to keep putting myself at risk. Any words of encouragement can help. He feels I am just making too big a deal out of everything. Thanks
Answer Lynn,
Have you thought about using protection?
Also once you have HPV, then even if you get treated for it, your husband can give it back to you.
Cervical cancer is very dangerous and can lead to uterine & ovarian cancers. I would suggest you read up on this more and maybe share some of what you find with your husband.
The only encouragement I can give is to tell you to hang in there and stick to your guns.
