AboutAnalisa Expertise Questions related to Swinging i.e. Why did you choose to become a swinger, He/She wants
to but I have doubts, How to begin/get started, What is the purpose of swinging, Why
would you become a swinger, Should we/shouldn't we, Rules (Are/Aren't they needed,
What should they be, What should be non-negotiable, What can be compromised, What to
do if rules are ignored or broken), House vs. private parties, Resources to locate other
swingers, What does it mean to take one for the team
Questions we can't answer: Any alternative sexual questions other than swinging, i.e.
Bestiality, Gang Banging, anything to do with minors, B/D or S&M, toilet games, etc. We also don't feel proficient in answering in depth relationship questions, we are not marriage/relationship counselors, if we receive a question that falls into that category we will refer you to seek professional help.
Experience Over 10 years in the Lifestyle, numerous events & encounters (some pleasant & enjoyable and others that were less than)
Organizations NASCA, Good Vibrations, C4P
Education/Credentials Both of us are college educated professionals.
Question Why does it seem like most people involved in the LS have flawless bodies? I had a poorly done breast reduction and now have some wide scars under each breast and am missing a nipple. I'm an extremely confident person but this 'flaw' has kept me from exploring a LS that I am extremely interested in. Do I need to tell potential partners about this? What kind of reaction will I get if I don't 'disclose' in advance?
Answer Keis,
I am not certain where it is that you are looking, that all you find are "flawless bodies". The majority of people I know and party with are all flawed somewhat even the "perfect" people.
I would suggest that you concentrate less on your "flaws" and more on just enjoying yourself. The majority of folks I know would either not notice this or not care and the few that would notice/care aren't people I would want to party with anyway. If you bring it up, then it just becomes the center of attention. So no I would not go around telling folks. Trust me, they probably have a flaw or two that they are worried you will notice.
