AboutAnalisa Expertise Questions related to Swinging i.e. Why did you choose to become a swinger, He/She wants
to but I have doubts, How to begin/get started, What is the purpose of swinging, Why
would you become a swinger, Should we/shouldn't we, Rules (Are/Aren't they needed,
What should they be, What should be non-negotiable, What can be compromised, What to
do if rules are ignored or broken), House vs. private parties, Resources to locate other
swingers, What does it mean to take one for the team
Questions we can't answer: Any alternative sexual questions other than swinging, i.e.
Bestiality, Gang Banging, anything to do with minors, B/D or S&M, toilet games, etc. We also don't feel proficient in answering in depth relationship questions, we are not marriage/relationship counselors, if we receive a question that falls into that category we will refer you to seek professional help.
Experience Over 10 years in the Lifestyle, numerous events & encounters (some pleasant & enjoyable and others that were less than)
Organizations NASCA, Good Vibrations, C4P
Education/Credentials Both of us are college educated professionals.
Question I had polio at age 4 -- my right leg was paralysed and I wear a brace and walk with a limp. I have been blessed to attract beautiful women who share my healthy sex drive. I am now in a 2 year relationship with someone who I think will explore the swinging lifestyle with me.
Will other swingers (couples and females) be open to someone like me with a physical disability? I am otherwise attractive, intelligent, and have a good sense of humor and enjoy just plain having a good time?
In the LS there seems to be matches for everyone. Initial assessments may be based on physical appearance but, most people get over that pretty quick. Very few people in the LS are perfect and very few are looking for perfection. The "Ken & Barbie" type are rare or usually in a group together. They represent a very small percentage of the LS and quite often are the most insecure.
Just go out there, set no expectation other than having fun and quite often that is what you will have.
