About Leesa Expertise I am the owner of Australia's first and only Council approved swingers club with my hubby Bryan.
We have been on the scene for over 17 years.
Owned a club for 4 years and love and live the lifestyle daily.I have extensive knowledge of the lifestyle and how it can affect your relationship or enhance your relationship.
My hubby and I are lucky enough to own our own club and we meet hundreds of patrons every week, some make the lifestyle choice, others find it is not for them.
The whole lifestyle is about communication and you should never enter into it, unless you both are prepared and know that is only about YOU 2 as a couple and not one of you singular.
Ask me your questions i am happy to give you some of my knowledge and hope that you too explore this wonderful lifestyle to see just how fantastic it really is.
It is not all about sex.
Leesa
Experience As above
Organizations couples international is our club in brisbane australia.
Education/Credentials building designers by day, swing club owners by night
My wife and I have been wanting for a year to have a threesome with another woman but never actively pursued this with anyone. recently i met a woman at a seminar who seems interested in me and has called me to meet her for dinner. my wife wants me to meet her to see if this could lead to a threesome but break it off if the woman isnt interested. I completely agree.
what i need your advice about is how to bring this up with the woman when i meet her. i have never tried to have this conversation before and I dont know what to say! she knows im married but hasnt met my wife. i would like to do this respectfully where if the woman is not interested then we can leave it at that and not offend her.
Answer Hi there
There is really no easy way to do this.
Make sure you are blunt and to the point, tell her exactly what you want and would like.
If she says no then so be it.
You have to remember that she is nothing to you both, and all that matters is the 2 of you.
So her saying no is really no big deal is it.
Just approach the subject as quickly as possible and seek her answer.
The easiest way is to say it, and be clear about what you are looking for, and then tell her not to answer you now, but to think about it and get back to you if she wants to , let her know that it is not a problem if she doesnt and that you totally understand and it wont be a problem at all.
Then if she doesnt get back to you both about it, take it as a no and move on
Tell her it is a just a fantasy and nothing more and if she would like to be part of it, she is welcome.
Leesa
