About Leesa Expertise I am the owner of Australia's first and only Council approved swingers club with my hubby Bryan.
We have been on the scene for over 17 years.
Owned a club for 4 years and love and live the lifestyle daily.I have extensive knowledge of the lifestyle and how it can affect your relationship or enhance your relationship.
My hubby and I are lucky enough to own our own club and we meet hundreds of patrons every week, some make the lifestyle choice, others find it is not for them.
The whole lifestyle is about communication and you should never enter into it, unless you both are prepared and know that is only about YOU 2 as a couple and not one of you singular.
Ask me your questions i am happy to give you some of my knowledge and hope that you too explore this wonderful lifestyle to see just how fantastic it really is.
It is not all about sex.
Leesa
Experience As above
Organizations couples international is our club in brisbane australia.
Education/Credentials building designers by day, swing club owners by night
Question i have been hearing a lot of adventures sex in married life and their fantasy's I am also married for last 7 years with good sex life recently i realised that my wife at times does not get sexually satisfied so i happened to tell her about this stange fantasy's of having sex with an other men she first said no but while when we are into sex she started asking me whether i am serious and what will be the relation of us after that?she at one time even agreed for doing it do you think ahe wants to try it if so whats the best to know whats she really wants
if she wants then how do i go about it answer?>
Answer Hi
Sometimes the thought of it is just as a turn on as doing it.
Talk to eachother about it all, even if you talk about what you want him to do to her while you 2 are having sex. This can be so hot and nasty and you dont even have to do anything at all.
If you do feel that she wants to go the extra step, it has to be for the both of you, and you must set rules and boundaries.
If you communicate and talk all the time, it can be fun and naughty. Never take phone numbers, you dont even have to know his name..just do a one night stand and not at your house....
See if you both enjoy it, and remember that YOU are in control, you tell him what he can and cannot do with your wife and watch over her at all times.
If he cant perform, you can simply tell him to leave and play with your wife yourself and have a giggle.
Remember dont loose focus, it is about you 2 and not him, always talk, giggle and have fun with it.
If it is not fun Dont do it.
Hope that helps.
Leesa
