Expert: Guycurious - 10/13/2011

Question
I need your help in understanding what my wife REALL MEANS, when she says MAYBE to swinging.

My wife is a gorgeous blonde model. Very sexy and very nice girl.
We have been married for more than TEN years and have a happy marriage and have one small kid.

We have been to swinger clubs like Miami Velvet but never played. My wife is NOT interested in other women or couples.

When we make love we ALWAYS fatasize about her fucking other men. After we take off our clothes and lie down in bed, I ask her to show me how she will open her legs for another man and my wife will open her legs very wide and show her beautiful pink pussy.

Then I ask her to show me how she will fuck theother gu and she pretends to put another man's cock into her pussy. At that point I get on top of her and fuck her till I cum, which I do in 5 minutes usually.

After I come on my wife's titties, she plays with her cliiter to reach orgasm while I suck her titties.

HOWEVER, when I ask m wife if she wants to fuck another man in REAL, she says MAYBE.

Can you help me understand what a woman really means when she says MAYBE.


Thanks a lot

Answer
I think your wife is trying to indulge your fantasies but in a safe manner only.  She knows you want to see her with other guys but she's not ready to do so.  If you push the topic too hard she may just shut down all talk of the subject.

You can try and ask her outside of the bedroom.  This way both of you are thinking straight and your hormones are not clouding your judgement.  Make sure the conversation is not confrontational, just open and honest but be prepared for her answer.  If she tells you no then accept it and move on.  

Hope this helps, good luck !