Expert: Guycurious - 5/15/2011

Question
My wife and I are both interested in swinging, but we are both very self conscious, and overweight.  I would like to know how to go about finding the right place to start looking for other partners without the fear of judgement based on our size and looks.  We have both talked about this a lot, and are both bi-curious and want to find other like minded people, but cannot afford to join one of the swinger sites that cost money.  Do you have any advice?

Answer
You could place an ad on a site such as Craigslist.  Also, I believe www.swinglifestyle.com will let you setup a free membership.

Be open and honest when you describe yourself.  Spell out exactly what you're looking for, what you're interested in, what you're not interested in, etc.  There are people of all shapes and sizes in the Lifestyle.  Screen your responses carefully as there are people out there who are less than honest unfortunately.

Once you agree to meet another couple, you and your wife need to discuss the ground rules and stick to them !  This is very important.  Don't abandon the rules in the throes of pleasure as it will usually lead to problems afterward.  

Have fun and let me know how it works out.