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My wife(22) and I(28), have been married for 2yrs(Military Police partners for 4). We have a closer bond and trust then most couples, and I have had the joy of teaching and molding her in sex(I am her 1st) . We have another soldier(3yrs, female,HOT...not as hot as wife tho) friend who is single and my wife has talked about bring her to our bed. They have made-out ect... but I/we are unsure how to proceed/open the talk with her, and seeing how our friendship with *Ann* was forged in battle and blood and We DO NOT want to jeperdize this. However, it gets harder and harder to  delay my wife from just acting like a bull in a china shop.   HELP!! Plz

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Jack  

*plz keep my email addy pvt...thx

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Sounds to me like the groundwork has already been laid for such an event.  Seeks like there is a mutual interest between the girls already so I would suggest having your wife talk with Ann and see if she's interested.  After they talk then you can talk about the next step.

Now, there have been times when a threesome has ended badly.  Sometimes feelings of jealousy come about and end a relationship.  Your marriage needs to be solid with great, open lines of communication.  Discuss the ground rules and stick to them.  

If Ann is not interested then your wife needs to drop the idea, with her anyway.

Hope this helps and let me know how you're doing.

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