Expert: Michael Andrews - 7/30/2011

Question
During the January, i like this guy in my school, but all along i didn't approach him. And during the school reopen after the june holidays, whenever i saw him, i would look at him, and there's a few times where i saw him looking back at me. And also i could get very excited when he likes or commented on my facebook status. And i was close to 1 of his friends and i invited the friend that i'm close with to my house for my birthday steamboat on the 26 of July as well as other friends. So the friend call him andhe come to my house on my birthday with his other friends and we play true or dare. We were dare to hug each other and he was dare to kiss my forehead and kiss my lip, he did it. And for some reason i've to left cause we went out to have dinner, the last dare was him to tongue kiss me and he did too. But somehow, that close friend told me that he like another girl and he seem to have chance. And yesterday i invited them to my house again and they dare him to kiss me or what, he refuse to do anything accept for hug. The close friend i'm with, told me that he won touch any girls beside the one he like. But i've started to like him, what can i do to get him to like me ?

Answer
You really have two choices - go after him or decide you will find someone else. If you do want to get him to like you, you should be cool with him. Let him know how much he is missing out on by not being your boyfriend. He'll find that more attractive than you appearing too keen on him.
Good luck either way!