Adult Swinging/Nervousness

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Expert: - 1/30/2012


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My wife has never swing before.  I had with my ex-wife.  My wife has finally agreed to trying out swinging on a MFM basis.  However, she is very nervous about it, how do I make things more comfortable for her?

Answer
What you could do is focus on helping her feel more sexy. She probably has concerns about how she will feel in the situation so maybe watch some tasteful porn together. You could also suggest you visit a swingers club just to look but without doing anything. Even going to a nude beach or encouraging her to share a fantasy with you when the two of you are making love.
The more sexual she feels the less uncomfortable it will be for her. And don't forget to remind her how gorgeous she is!

Hope this helps.

All the best

Michael

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Michael Andrews

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Couples sexuality, swinging, relationships

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Speaker, author, publisher and workshop presenter in the areas of couples relationships and sexuality. Author of "How To Turn Your Partner Into a Swinger" and "The Sexless Marriage Cure", both available from Amazon Kindle bookstore.

Publications
Author, "How To Turn Your Partner Into a Swinger", available at www.swingwithyourwife.com. Consulting editor, "Real Intimacy: the 9 Habits of Great Relationships", available at http://www.amazon.com/Real-Intimacy-Habits-Relationships-ebook/dp/B005MNTE8O/ref=sr_1_sc_1?s=digital-text&ie=UTF8&qid=1321502809&sr=1-1-spell Free Report, "How to Reignite the Passion in Your Relationship" available from http://www.lovesexinstitute.com

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MA (Hons), DipBus

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