Expert: Michael Andrews - 1/18/2012

Question
Hi Michael I am a 24 yr old male who is still a virgin. I'll be short and concise, my only form of pleasure so far has been from porn, pics, etc. A year or two ago I found out about the swinging/cuckolding/sharing wife lifestyles and started chatting in those chatrooms because it was different than the usual sex vids or chatrooms. The problem is tho that it came to a point where I would only go and chat in those chatrooms and now I want to stop and I know I can stop but I worry will I be turned on again as I was when I first discovered porn by just regular porn? or even when I am with a girl? I will be honest I am insecure regarding my penis size and a lot of times that is a big theme in the other lifestyles where the husband is not big enough or good enough, etc. I however DO NOT WANT TO BE IN THOSE LIFESTYLES which is why I have decided to stop going on those chatsites. Will this help and get me back to normal? I feel like finding those sites/chats and going on them in hindsight is a big mistake but I don't want this to have an impact on my future.

Answer
Yes it's a good idea to stay away from those sites. You would be better to focus on developing the qualities in yourself that will help you attract a girlfriend, if that is what you want. Good on you for making a mature decision.

Kind regards,
Michael