Expert: Michael Andrews - 1/29/2012

Question
QUESTION: Im a female and this cashier who is also a female and she is married. well she keeps staring at me smiling and always says hi and waves at me, she tells me im her friend, she asked me my name, I told her and she was like, "i like you" while im in line with other people, and now that she knows my name she teases me, shes like "Sashaaaaa" while shes working, and if I respond she'll turn her head and watch me and she starts smiling. is she just being friendly or is she bisexual. I love making new friends, but I dont know if I should be friends with her? thanks

ANSWER: Do you want her to be your friend? Do you think she is someone who would make you feel good to be around? That is the bottom line. If you don't, then maybe find somewhere else to shop or try another line.
Her behavior does sound rather odd.....

All the best,

Michael

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QUESTION: thanks. she seems like a fun person, but i think if  start hanging out with her, it may lead to something else... i dont think she wants a friendship from what im seeing. ive went to another line, and she told me on my way out the door "oh, so you didnt want to get in my line"? i just smiled at her and left. should i just ask her is she bisexual or just ask her what does she want from me? or is that too blunt?

Answer
You need to make the decision - think it through and decide if you really want this person to be around. If you do, you could show you are interested. If you don't, then smile when she says something but don't react. Remember that weaker people always want to get a reaction out of stronger people as it makes them feel less weak.
You sound a good person so go with what you feel...

All the best

Michael