Adult Swinging/unwanted lifestyle


kittyeyes wrote at 2013-01-07 22:44:30
He needs to decide who his girlfriend is.  This is not swinging,  it's cheating.  Do not try to talk to him about it until you get your own head straight and can look at it objectively.  At the end of the day, if you are not important to him, you are not.  A man who is into you is not helpless when faced with the desire of another woman.  Swinging or not.  Ppl are faced with this with this daily.  The real question is not how to convince him you are important, but rather if you want to continue with someone who does not consider your feelings.  The sexual adventure didn't cause this, it just brought it front and center.  Does he consider your feelings in other ways?  Or does he dismiss your opinions as unimportant?  Is  he willing to lose you over this?  Find your own voice and use it.  Everyone has fun, or no one has fun.  It's okay and not be cool with this.he is acting as a single man,  me....I'd let him be single if he wants and find someone who won't take me so for granted.  But that's me.

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