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My husband would really like to watch me give another guy a blow job we talk about it during sex and I does turn me on and I think I would like to do it. My question is why is it that guys really like this? this seams to be a thing for a lot of guys what is about seeing you wife or girlfriend do this to another guy that turns them on so much. I don't go around thinking wow wouldn't it be nice to see my guy give oral to another woman. I'm just trying to understand men's thinking. Thanks Sheryl

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Hi Sheryl,
You're right that a lot of men do seem to have this fantasy and enjoy seeing it turn into reality! I think the reason has a lot to do with mens' biological 'wiring'. A common masculine trait is to see their woman being dominated and pleasured and seeing another man doing that accentuates it.  It also I think increases a man's sense of his own masculinity when he sees his woman being desirable to another man. These are all theories as I haven't seen any research on it, but from what I have seen it seems to be a common pattern.
You might also like to ask your husband why and see if my ideas ring true for him.
Have fun and all the best,
Michael

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Michael Andrews

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Couples sexuality, swinging, relationships

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Speaker, author, publisher and workshop presenter in the areas of couples relationships and sexuality. Author of "How To Turn Your Partner Into a Swinger" and "The Sexless Marriage Cure", both available from Amazon Kindle bookstore.

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Author, "How To Turn Your Partner Into a Swinger", available at www.swingwithyourwife.com. Consulting editor, "Real Intimacy: the 9 Habits of Great Relationships", available at http://www.amazon.com/Real-Intimacy-Habits-Relationships-ebook/dp/B005MNTE8O/ref=sr_1_sc_1?s=digital-text&ie=UTF8&qid=1321502809&sr=1-1-spell Free Report, "How to Reignite the Passion in Your Relationship" available from http://www.lovesexinstitute.com

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MA (Hons), DipBus

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