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About Scotto
Expertise
I can answer questions ranging from: People who want to swing but have questions. People who want to put their toe in the water but don't want to become swingers.

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I have participated in numerous swinging situations in the past including moresomes and threesomes including mfm and fmf types.

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literotica.com

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Bachelors with some Masters work in business.

 
   

You are here:  Experts > People/Relationships > Alternative Relationship Styles > Adult Swinging > Broaching the subject

Topic: Adult Swinging



Expert: Scotto
Date: 8/24/2007
Subject: Broaching the subject

Question
How does one broach the subject with a spouse? I live in China and have been married a very short time. But there is LOTS AND LOTS of wonderful pussy here in China that I want to sample.

I'm not talking about swinging, per se, but being honest and private with my wife and telling her that I want to sample other pussy. Some couples come to an equilibrium (where the wife knows that her husband screws everyone that he can get his hands on and they just tacitly agree not to discuss it), and others have to talk about it.

What do you think?

Answer
No question that some marriages function this way.  Call it an open marriage--however.  You basically are asking for a free pass.  Why would your wife do this?  Has she given you any indication that this would be okay?  If not you are taking a chance that you would at a minimum be hurting her badly and at the other end of the spectrum she would just decide that she didn't want to be married to you anymore and tell you to get out.

Hope this helps.

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