About Scotto Expertise I can answer questions ranging from:
People who want to swing but have questions.
People who want to put their toe in the water but don't want to become swingers.
Experience I have participated in numerous swinging situations in the past including moresomes and threesomes including mfm and fmf types.
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Education/Credentials Bachelors with some Masters work in business.
Question My husband and I have been swinging for over a year. We have only been involved with a few couples. One of them since March. They are not married and we have set bounderies with them and I thought we agreed on them. How do I handle him crossing the line and breaking our rules? How do I handle him trying to hide it too? Would this be considered cheating or is it just part of the lifestyle? Do I accept the "It just happened" and the "I dont know" answers? I am so confused. Any advice you can give would be great.
Answer Well heck yes its cheating. It is still violating the trust. You could do a lot of things but one of the first I would do is have him admit how lucky he is to have the freedom he has and remind him that if he wants to continue it that there will be no more instances of his cheating on you. I'd also get with the lady he is cheating with and let her know that he is violating your agreement and he is cheating. She probably thinks he has your permission. That's just my guess.
Lay down the law or get rid of him because what he is doing is not okay.
