About Jeff & Kris Booth Expertise Singles and swinging, how to get started, what to expect, dealing with jealousy, finding clubs, throwing parties.
Experience 7 years in swinging, involved with planning and presentations for several Lifestyles Conventions, author of Guide to Alternative Lifestyles, and in an article on sexuality.org, the author states we are reputed to hold the best swing parties on the West Coast.
Publications Loving Alternatives magazine, AVN Online magazine, editors of sexinreview.com, eroticguide.com, eroticuniversity.com, and we have been featured on Extra, Leeza, The X Show, Dr. Susan Block Show, KROQ Kevin and Bean show, Rouze.com, and Los Angeles magazine.
Question I fantasize non stop about my pretty blonde wife getting taken and ravaged by a big black stud.
Currently I act it out by starting by getting her wet, then I get up and put on this huge black cock strap on (which is VERY realistic at 8" and THICK!)and take her. She has multiple O's everytime now whereas before she had a tough time orgasming with just me. Then I pretend the BBC (Big Black Cock) has creamed deep inside her and that her hubby better clean her up so she won't get pregnant. So I take it off, give her a good cleaning, then I get to put my "smaller" white cock in her; which feels great after being stretched out by her black lover.
She loves it. I love it. We do it for well over an hour now, instead of the 20 minute thing. I would like to make it real, but it's more my fantasy than hers, though she admits she'd no doubt enjoy it.
Is this normal and more importantly, how common is this fantasy among both men and women?
Thanks.
Answer It is quite normal and quite common. It does not always work out quite as well in fantasy as reality, though. If you really want to live this out, I would suggest the safer environment of a swing club. Nasca.com lists clubs across the country. Of course, practicing safe sex is always a good idea in this sort of environment.
