Expert: Scotto - 10/28/2007

Question
Two of my best friends were gay couple and, not too long ago, they accidentally walked in on me when I was naked in my room. I did not make a big deal about it since I have done modelling and I always feel comfortable with being naked in front of other people. However, a few days ago, I found out that it was a big deal for them. They said both of them were aroused when they saw me naked and were wondering if they were really gay or bi-sexual instead. Since we were very close, we began discussing the matter and that led them to ask me if I were willing to help solve their dilemma by having sex with them (threesome). I was shocked and told them that I couldn't answer right away.

They are very attractive guys and I would jump into bed with them under normal circumstances. But the idea of having sex with a gay couple who happened to be my best friends never crossed my mind before. I know my friends very well. They are very good guys and they are always so nice to me. I know they will be nice to me as well in bed, but is it really a good idea to do this with them? Is there any potential problem that may arise later? Should I suggest them to find someone else instead? But I also feel bad if I refuse to help my best friends after they trust me so much with this. Can you please help me by offering some suggestions?

Thank you!
Karen

Answer
Karen, no way would I do this if I were in your shoes.  If they are good looking like you say and attractive they should have ample opportunity to find other women who would help them figure out their sexual orientation WITHOUT jeopardizing a friendship in the process.  Think about it--what is in it for you beyond being a part of their experiment.  I am sure that you don't have any problems finding men for sex or attaining orgasms.  It is nice of you to consider this because they are your friends but I think that's where the obligation stops.