About Scotto Expertise I can answer questions ranging from:
People who want to swing but have questions.
People who want to put their toe in the water but don't want to become swingers.
Experience I have participated in numerous swinging situations in the past including moresomes and threesomes including mfm and fmf types.
Publications literotica.com
Education/Credentials Bachelors with some Masters work in business.
Question How can I introduce my wife to the idea of swinging? We are both very sexual and love sex. We both have experienced many sexual partners but not since we have been together and I would like to see her with other men. She has had more encounters tan I have and has experienced black and other races. But before we met. I know that she would like to have a variety of men. If others have been here let me know how you handled this with your spouse besides the exports.
Answer Communication communication communication. Have a conversation re: your fantasies and things you would like to experience sexually. Be prepared that she may have some you would consider shocking. Also be prepared that she may have some of the same fantasies but might not ever want to take them past the fantasy stage. An example of this is a woman who has a rape fantasy. It would be extremely rare that she would want to make that fantasy a part of her real life.
When I wanted to experience other partners I let my wife know it turned me on. It takes some courage to lay yourself out there but if you can't do that it seems unlikely that you would have a relationship solid enough to introduce and withstand the complexity of other sexual partners.
