About Scotto Expertise I can answer questions ranging from:
People who want to swing but have questions.
People who want to put their toe in the water but don't want to become swingers.
Experience I have participated in numerous swinging situations in the past including moresomes and threesomes including mfm and fmf types.
Publications literotica.com
Education/Credentials Bachelors with some Masters work in business.
Question My wife and I would like to explore swinging as an outlet to release and experience our sexuality, however, we have concluded that we are going to have sex (penetration of the vaginal area) with someone other than us.
We would like to engage in touching and possible oral, but to get stated we just want to go to a club and simply watch others have sex, is this acceptable at most swinging clubs?
Answer You will see all kinds of people at swinger parties including people doing exactly as you describe. The only activities that are not acceptable are those that people have not agreed to before hand. No means no. Be respectful of others and their wishes and they should be with you as well. A lot of people put their toe in the water doing just what you and your spouse intend to do and if you want to take it further than do so with full communication agreement with your partner and for crying out loud make sure you both are on the same page on what is and is not off limits before you do ANYTHING.
