About Jeff & Kris Booth Expertise Singles and swinging, how to get started, what to expect, dealing with jealousy, finding clubs, throwing parties.
Experience 7 years in swinging, involved with planning and presentations for several Lifestyles Conventions, author of Guide to Alternative Lifestyles, and in an article on sexuality.org, the author states we are reputed to hold the best swing parties on the West Coast.
Publications Loving Alternatives magazine, AVN Online magazine, editors of sexinreview.com, eroticguide.com, eroticuniversity.com, and we have been featured on Extra, Leeza, The X Show, Dr. Susan Block Show, KROQ Kevin and Bean show, Rouze.com, and Los Angeles magazine.
Expert: Jeff & Kris Booth Date: 7/1/2003 Subject: Writing an add
Question When writing an add, to submitt to a swingers magazine, for either couples or singles, what information should you include, and how can you peak the reader's interest? I have never done something like that before? Also, if you are overweight, how can you include that, without turning people off? Thanks.
Answer The traditional way in ads to swingers magazines to attract attention has been to lie, but that sort of falls apart when people actually meet you. The best way though is to read ads to see what other are writing and what appeals to you. Then apply that to yourself.
If you are overweight and a woman, the term BBW is used. There is no equivalent for guys, but I have seen language used that intimates this for a couple. Again, the best thing to do is to read a lot of ads.
Basically, you tell people your interests and what you are looking for. The more specific the better. While a more general ad, in theory, should appeal to more people, in actuality there is no hook there and it gets ingnored. Very specific ads may appeal to fewer people, but it will get the attention of the right people.