Follow-Ups to Answer from Expert Scotto

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sam wrote at 2007-11-09 23:05:33
Hi, I've read your your question and I think that the answer given is spot on.  I was exactly like you except now my fantasy has turned to reality, it was acheived through communication understanding and trust, my wife was recently "fucked senseless" by my best freind, I have'nt seen her so happy in years.  My marriage did not automatically self destruct, we are both happy.

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Guest wrote at 2007-11-24 23:21:43
There isn't anything wrong with you.  This is a fantasy of a bunch of couples, and I suspect there are many more men out there that carry the fantasy but would never even speak of it with their spouse (wife) for fear of her reaction.  Don't let the moral police dictate what is right and proper in your marriage and in your life together.  As long as you both approach this as equal - nobody is being pressured to do something they don't want to do - enjoy your sexuality to its fullest.  Just remember that you married each other because you love, honor, and cherish each other...and that doesn't change.  Sharing your spouse with another person can be an intense and highly erotic addition to a healthy marriage, and can make your relationship with your wife MUCH stronger.  Good Luck!

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Hubforwife wrote at 2008-01-03 04:31:44
The key to anything sexual is communication. My wife and I would talk 'naughty' for years in bed spilling out our fantasies. One fantasy we both had was her having sex with another man and I watching. After some real talking, outside of the bedroom, we decided to do it. She picked her own man and met him. The meeting went so well that they had sex as I watched. Sure, the first time it was odd. weird, and emotionally taxing but the excitement over took it all. Once I saw my wife being pleasured with her new lover and after he left her excitement to be with me, it was worth it. We have done it many times since and even had one male stud as her lover for years.

I suggest talk to her about it. Even while you have sex, pretend as she already had the experience, or even just say how much you want it. Once you do experience the fun, keep that communication line wide open. Best of luck and enjoy the experience.

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john wrote at 2008-03-16 05:32:13
wife swapping is a more than just an idea anymore it happens everyday. i love seeing my wife being pleasured by someone else wether it be a man or woman even another couple . there are swingers clubs that you could have your wife dress really sexy and go out to but always have the talk with honesty always! once you get there you may find her more into it then you can imagine

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Robb32 wrote at 2009-12-31 15:39:59
It's a very common fantasy, and shows your maturity and ability to get beyond the whole ownership, possession thing, and to appreciate your wife as a sexual being. wwwdotourhotwivesdotorg

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