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| pl help!! | 6/11/2009 |
Q: First let me thank you for your advice. I have one question for you... If a couple ( straight guy ...
A: Perfect scenario is that both people are comfortable with the playmate(s). From my own experience ...
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| Swinging | 4/9/2009 |
Q: I have been married for 19 years. I am 47 and my wife is 51. In the past, my wife has admitted that ...
A: You really can't make any of this happen, but you can certainly get the wheels in motion. Have you ...
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| Starting the swining lifestyle | 4/6/2009 |
Q: My husband is really wanting to start experimenting with the swinging lifestyle. He is 58 and I am ...
A: It's very normal and common to struggle with the thoughts of him being with another woman. ...
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| shocked | 2/9/2009 |
Q: I've recently started dating a man and we've really hit it off. He's handsome, smart, funny, rich ...
A: ! RUN.... FAST!!!!!! "He went on to say how all fat ugly women should be killed and demolished ...
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| Web Cam/Same Room | 1/22/2009 |
Q: When I first met my boyfriend he told me he had always fantasized about seeing me with another man ...
A: Let's try to understand this together. Sounds to me like he would be game for a little sexual ...
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| Im I right | 1/17/2009 |
Q: O.K. here goes...my fiance lied to me about hanging out with another girl. I don't know if they had ...
A: YES!!! You are definatley starting out on the wrong foot, with both feet!!! Trust has to be there ...
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| Failed as a swinger? | 12/30/2008 |
Q: I asked another expert a question similar to this, and this individual simply bashed me. You seem to ...
A: It is VERY common in the lifestyle for guys not to be able to get an erection!!!! Especially ...
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| Ground Rules | 12/8/2008 |
Q: We have been seeing a couple for about a month. I (he) am not getting into the girl and she said ...
A: Have you told the other couple you are not interested in a sexual relationship with them? Has your ...
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| swingers clubs | 12/3/2008 |
Q: We are the owners of the first and only council approved swingers club in australia. Are there club ...
A: Wow that is great news !! I'm curious as to what guidelines you had to follow and what restrictions ...
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| Considering beginning to swing! | 11/22/2008 |
Q: I'm 19 and my boyfriend of 1 year is 26. We are very much in love and have a great sex life. In the ...
A: !!))) You have done your homework and communicated, two of the biggest steps to entering the ...
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| How can i get my husband(steady partner) to swing? | 11/19/2008 |
Q: ..i know this is a delicate topic because there is such a small % of couples with an open minded ...
A: Seems from what he was exposed to at the Halloween party might have already a major shock to him. I ...
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| Unsure what to do | 11/17/2008 |
Q: My husband and I are very much in love and we respect each other fully. We have openly discussed ...
A: A pat on the back girl for at least wanting to try!! How did you feel when you watched? When it was ...
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| Swinging interests | 11/17/2008 |
Q: My wife and I are interested in swinging, either a threesome with another man or with another ...
A: !! Congratulations!!!!!! I am so pleased to hear that everything went good for you guys on your ...
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| Understand me | 11/17/2008 |
Q: well here goes.. I have been with my current girlfriend (not wife) for like 5 months. We fell quick ...
A: ! Wow, you have a lot to say, but you say it so well. To begin with, you have only been ...
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| *** What should we do??? *** | 11/13/2008 |
Q: I'm 20 and my girlfriend is 21. We've been together for over 2 years and are both in college. She's ...
A: You guys are definitely not ready to start swinging!! The lifestyle is for couples that are ...
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| Swinging interests | 11/13/2008 |
Q: My wife and I are interested in swinging, either a threesome with another man or with another ...
A: ! So basically it sounds like you both have the same fantasy.... your's just involves more ...
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| rules | 11/12/2008 |
Q: I'VE BEEN IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH MY MATE FOR TWO YEARS. HE'S BEEN THE LIFESTYLE FOR A WHILE.SINCE ...
A: NO NO NO. There is a difference between the lifestyle and having an open relationship. Sounds ...
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| Swinging & Cheating | 11/7/2008 |
Q: About 2 years ago my hubby and I decided to try swinging and we met a 'nice' couple who seemed to ...
A: The fact that you and your husband were in the lifestyle for a brief period, set ground rules, then ...
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| how can i get my wife to try swinging | 11/4/2008 |
Q: i am really wanting to try to spice up my relationship i tried to talk my wife into letting me watch ...
A: Trying to "spice things up" or trying to fix a relationship? There is a difference. If you are ...
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| age for swinging | 11/1/2008 |
Q: I read that young couples should not do swinging because the emotions are too strong. That swinging ...
A: I would love to know your age!! There is no "right or wrong" age to get into swinging. Yes, you ...
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| Sex with other couple | 10/31/2008 |
Q: Last weekend it was my husband's birthday, he wanted to go to Live Oak Resort which is a nudist ...
A: Oh Kathy, that definitely puts a different perspective on it!!! He has set you up once, sounds like ...
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| Sex with other couple | 10/31/2008 |
Q: Last weekend it was my husband's birthday, he wanted to go to Live Oak Resort which is a nudist ...
A: ! Amazing what liquid courage can do. It's really not my place to agree with you, or tell you ...
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| Our possible first time | 10/27/2008 |
Q: My wife and I have been married for 15 years and have a solid relationship. we are able to admit ...
A: Great question!!!! Be mindful that everything is HER call. If she says no to a situation, don't ...
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| Our possible first time | 10/26/2008 |
Q: My wife and I have been married for 15 years and have a solid relationship. we are able to admit ...
A: Well Orlando sounds like you and your wife are on the same page, and ready for the next step!! In ...
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| my wife and two men | 10/26/2008 |
Q: My wife and I fantasize about her taking two men at once. She is turned on by it also, but we have ...
A: . Yummy!!! One of my favorite fantasies!! But one question. You say "you are ready to take it to ...
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| Adult swinging | 10/21/2008 |
Q: My husband has an extreme desire to be involved in a threesome with me and another man. He wants to ...
A: Wow sounds like you are a mixed bag of emotions about now. Big hugs to you. First of all, the ...
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