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| Swinging First Time | 9/22/2009 |
Q: I would like to get my wife into swinging. She has not done it before, and I am trying to find a way ...
A: One thing to remember is that to never push your wife into the swinging side of it unless she and ...
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| threesome with my wife | 9/16/2009 |
Q: My wife and I have been wanting for a year to have a threesome with another woman but never actively ...
A: There is really no easy way to do this. Make sure you are blunt and to the point, tell her exactly ...
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| want to know about wife swapping? | 9/16/2009 |
Q: i have been hearing a lot of adventures sex in married life and their fantasy's I am also married ...
A: Sometimes the thought of it is just as a turn on as doing it. Talk to eachother about it all, even ...
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| my boyfriend is swinging with a married woman | 8/4/2009 |
Q: i dont really know what to do here. this is not the first time, but my boyfriend (now ex but we ...
A: Honey, you deserve better. Be true to yourself, and move on and be happy, I know that is easy said, ...
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| my boyfriend is swinging with a married woman | 8/3/2009 |
Q: i dont really know what to do here. this is not the first time, but my boyfriend (now ex but we ...
A: One important thing that i noticed is that you said he was your X, and you just live together. I ...
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| Age barrier | 7/14/2009 |
Q: Are there people aged betweet 25 and 30 ish that go to CI??
A: You are in the core group that goes to our club. Most young couples are sick of the fighting etc in ...
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| Swinging with a friend | 7/13/2009 |
Q: I have a friend that I am very fond of and I believe the feeling is mutual. The problem is I have ...
A: I hear what you are saying and can relate. You do need to set boundries and rules, and if you go to ...
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| question | 7/1/2009 |
Q: My husband and I have been talking about swinging for a long time....I was wondering how to deal ...
A: Before you enter the swinging lifestyle make sure you have set your rules. No one should defer from ...
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| THANKS FOR HELP | 6/11/2009 |
Q: First let me thank you for your advice. I have one question for you... If a couple ( straight guy ...
A: In answer to your question, Everyone has to be comfortable with everything each of the persons do. ...
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| pl help!!! | 6/8/2009 |
Q: Me and my boyfriend started dating in 2005. In 2006 we both decide to explore the swinging lifestyle ...
A: I read your email and wonder why you still attending swinging clubs. As you stated the lifestyle is ...
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| Verification email... | 6/2/2009 |
Q: We came for a look on Sat night, both agreed it was great, relaxed, layed back and the patrons were ...
A: Just let me know what your username is. Joining the website is not membership though of the club, ...
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| doubts about age.. | 5/31/2009 |
Q: I am a woman in the sixties, a widow, and had not had much sex for some years. Recently I have met a ...
A: You are never too old to start swinging, Swinging is many different forms, and i simply hate the ...
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| new experience | 5/26/2009 |
Q: we are entering this fun world for the first time, we have spoken (so many times) about doing this ...
A: Our experience was to ease in, go to a few parties, see what goes on and draw from that experience ...
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| How It Works | 5/19/2009 |
Q: I am a 33 year old female with a 23 year old male fuck buddy. We have given 3somes a shot MFF and ...
A: Great to hear from you and sorry for the delay. Please dont ever attend our venue expecting sex or ...
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| starting swinging with confidence | 5/18/2009 |
Q: Any tips on how to set aside morals imbedded to engage in a exciting sexual lifestyle. Fear ...
A: Sorry for the delay in my response to you i have been away. Swinging is an awesome experience for a ...
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| How do I get my partner interested! | 5/14/2009 |
Q: I am really interested in having sex with my partner whilst being watched. I have been trying to ...
A: Sorry for the delay in answering i have been away. Please dont ever push your wife or it wont happen ...
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| Married woman has guilt | 5/9/2009 |
Q: Admittedly, I can't find the exact category I think I'm looking for here on ExpertCentral. However, ...
A: I am sorry but i cannot help you. You see our lifestyle is not at all about infidelity, there is no ...
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| Live cam room | 5/6/2009 |
Q: My partner and I spent our birthdays at CI this year and without a doubt had a great time. On our ...
A: No you cannot record, and no we dont keep any record, it is just beamed live through ...
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| Swinging with friends versus acquaintances | 5/5/2009 |
Q: My boyfriend and I are looking into the swinging lifestyle and we come from two different views of ...
A: Sorry for the delay in answering i have been away. the lifestyle is all about communication, some ...
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| Trying to start off! :) | 4/26/2009 |
Q: I’m a military husband and out on a deployment, reserves! So normally am always home, but a month ...
A: Hey there I am pleased you chose me to answer this question, i will need to tell you a bit about ...
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| CI | 4/18/2009 |
Q: My long term partner and I have been talking about exploring sex with other people together for a ...
A: You and your partner can of course have sex in any manner you choose, that is your personal choice, ...
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| about swinging | 4/17/2009 |
Q: I have had some people they only soft swap and i would like to know what that was. I have been in ...
A: My understanding of "soft swap" is that 2 couples may enjoy same room sex with their own partners ...
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| swinging | 4/5/2009 |
Q: recently my wife of 10 years discussed it and picked up a guy and i looked on while they had great ...
A: No it is not wrong. I will tell you what we do. Just last night we had a friend over, he stayed the ...
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| Adult swinging | 4/2/2009 |
Q: My wife used to have great sex curiosity which is dying now.I have observed when she chat online she ...
A: I must say that you should never try and MAKE your wife do anything she doesnt want to do. Our ...
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| Threesome of foursome? | 3/26/2009 |
Q: My fiancee and I have been together for 5 years. About 6 months ago we started using sex toys and ...
A: Can i suggest to you that it depends on what you are looking for. We have had many fun times with ...
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| Couple Considering Swinging | 2/25/2009 |
Q: Hello, and thank you for taking my question. I will try my best not to ramble and give you enough ...
A: After reading your letter i am thinking that your wife is one very lucky lady. It seems you both ...
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| swinging | 2/10/2009 |
Q: iam very much in love with my wife and she is in love me. our sex life is great. She claims if i ...
A: I am a tad confused at your question. In one breath you say your are deeply in love with your wife ...
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| Begginning swinging and yet worried | 1/27/2009 |
Q: Context: Hi, my partner and I have been together 5 years now. I have a toddler and he 3 kids from ...
A: Swinging: is it for you. Yes: Is my answer, you dont have to have sex with others to swing. It is ...
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| STD's & Swinging | 1/15/2009 |
Q: G'morning, I am a single male who was known about the lifestyle (and somewhat active, when the right ...
A: In my 17 years of being on the scene i have never been told or known of any persons with any STD's. ...
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| single ladies | 1/13/2009 |
Q: unattached or ladies who are there on there own? I am married but would like to visit your club on ...
A: Hey and thanks for your question. When talk of single ladies we simply mean single ladies. However ...
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| feeling left out now | 1/2/2009 |
Q: I am in the military and a few months ago I deployed to Iraq. My wife and I had been discussing ...
A: This is a very common problem in the lifestyle. Communication is the key, and communication the ...
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| Watching Wife | 12/19/2008 |
Q: I am trying to understand why I get so turned on watching my woman with another guy. I am bisexual, ...
A: There is nothing wrong with getting turned on by watching your wife have sex with someone else. In ...
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| sex | 12/12/2008 |
Q: We have been married for 30 years my wife is especially attractive (movie star quality) I want her ...
A: This is common among a lot of couples. Swinging lifestyle wont work if it about only you and not the ...
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