| Subject | Date Asked |
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| idnetifying other sswingers | 6/30/2008 |
Q: We are nudists and want to get into swinging. We know that some nudist camps have swingers, but we ...
A: Wes, As I am not a "formally identified nudist" I don't know that I can help you much. What I can ...
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| Want to try Swinging | 6/29/2008 |
Q: My husband and I have talked about swinging for several years. we have talked about the good and ...
A: Karen, I would suggest checking into an online swinger site first. This way you can check out all ...
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| wanting to try | 6/28/2008 |
Q: I am very secure with myself and my relationship with my wife which is a monogamist heterosexual ...
A: So Marcus, What are you asking here, I don't really see a question per-se? From your statement, I ...
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| Threesome with partner's friend has made me jealous | 6/28/2008 |
Q: My LT partner and I have been swinging on and off for a couple of years, pretty much foursomes.Just ...
A: Suzee, What would you like me to help you with? I am not certain what your question is and I don't ...
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| A Crush | 6/23/2008 |
Q: While in a college trip i met this guy who was still new in college. While on the trip we danced ...
A: Reeny, Stay away from this guy, he is BAD for your self-esteem. Worse even than your husband (at ...
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| black swingers clubs | 6/23/2008 |
Q: My boyfriend and I are trying to spread our minds sexual and we would like to go to a swingers club ...
A: Sunnie, I am not sure what you are asking as I don't really get that there is a question here. If ...
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| My wife having sex with another man | 6/21/2008 |
Q: We are a young couple and me and my wife are planning to go to a swinger's party. My wife seems ...
A: How I feel has little or no consideration in how your wife will feel, that is why I did not go down ...
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| My wife having sex with another man | 6/20/2008 |
Q: We are a young couple and me and my wife are planning to go to a swinger's party. My wife seems ...
A: Answer to #1 - Yes, it is absolutely possible but then anything is possible. I can't say she would ...
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| single at club | 6/20/2008 |
Q: I will be going on a business trip to Cincinnati and there is swinger clubs in near by dayton my ...
A: Talax, Unfortunately all I have are some old sayings in response . . . So here goes, single guys in ...
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| First Time | 6/20/2008 |
Q: My question is that my husband and I are looking in to possibly bringing another woman in to the ...
A: K, Short answer is, yes. A strong marriage can survive anything EXCEPT dishonesty. My husband and I ...
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| My wife having sex with another man | 6/20/2008 |
Q: We are a young couple and me and my wife are planning to go to a swinger's party. My wife seems ...
A: Janice, BEFORE you go to this party, you & your wife need to talk . . . about EVERYTHING; Your ...
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| First Time | 6/19/2008 |
Q: My question is that my husband and I are looking in to possibly bringing another woman in to the ...
A: K, I would STRONGLY urge you to ask him just that question. Be prepared before you do to not get ...
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| no subject | 6/13/2008 |
Q: my boyfriend and I have been swinging for the past three years now and we have been together for 5 ...
A: My suggestion is to start saying this to yourself EVERY morning in the mirror. "I am a normal, ...
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| swinging with a platonic friend | 6/12/2008 |
Q: A female friend and I are considering going to a swingers club as a couple (mainly because it is ...
A: Joe, The first thing you might want to know is that the LifeStyle is NOT about misleading people, ...
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| finding what we want | 6/12/2008 |
Q: My husband & I have recently found out about a local on site swing club. We are pretty excited to ...
A: Robin, I would make one more suggestion about your first visit . . . don't expect ANYTHING to ...
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| menage a trios | 6/11/2008 |
Q: This isn't really specifically about swinging, but it is the closest subject I could find. My ...
A: Janelle, I would suggest registering with a "swingers" website as either a couple who are willing ...
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| no subject | 6/11/2008 |
Q: my boyfriend and I have been swinging for the past three years now and we have been together for 5 ...
A: I think rather than second guessing your boyfriend maybe you should work on loving you. I know that ...
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| no subject | 6/9/2008 |
Q: my boyfriend and I have been swinging for the past three years now and we have been together for 5 ...
A: Couples who are not happy in their relationships, should NOT be in the LifeStyle at all. This simply ...
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| Started swinging but where does it stop? | 6/7/2008 |
Q: My fiance and I started initially at looking for 3somes with another girl to join us as an FFM. That ...
A: Lucy, I would suggest starting with honesty. Tell your fiance how you feel about his 'obsession' ...
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| Interested but nervous | 6/7/2008 |
Q: So, an old lover recently popped up out of the blue...he had changed jobs and not left me any info ...
A: Rachel, For starters I think this is a bad plan all the way around but, if this is what you think ...
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| finding a third for a threesome | 5/20/2008 |
Q: Hey Analisa, My girlfriend and I want to bring another woman into our bedroom, but we don't know ...
A: Jay, I have a couple of suggestions: 1. Check out a LifeStyle website (adultfriendfinders.com, ...
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| newbie rules | 5/13/2008 |
Q: My wife and I are contemplating stepping into the lifestyle. My wife came of age in the 70's and ...
A: Mark, In answer to your first question, yes. Anyone who chooses to judge others is automatically ...
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| need a little help | 5/12/2008 |
Q: Hey, I saw you posted an answer to another girls question and I kinda really need assistance. I ...
A: First things first, do NOT let anyone else make you feel bad about your life choices. Have you ...
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| need a little help | 5/12/2008 |
Q: Hey, I saw you posted an answer to another girls question and I kinda really need assistance. I ...
A: JJ, Please first understand I have no judgement one way or another about someone else's lifestyle ...
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| Floating swingers club as a business | 5/6/2008 |
Q: We have been swing for about 10 years and find the clubs range from great & safe to down and dirty. ...
A: lgeaux, I'm sure you already know the answer to this, all we ask is that you send us an invite ...
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| To be or not to be? | 4/24/2008 |
Q: we currently have a pretty awkward situation and not sure what should we do? We are a typical east ...
A: Geetha & Mohan, I would strongly suggest the two of you discuss this first. Imagine what would the ...
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| single female | 4/21/2008 |
Q: i really want to get into swinging but im not sure how to go about it as a single female.i have ...
A: Janice, We usually suggest meeting for dinner/drinks to get to know each other & see if the ...
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| Ref: question | 4/21/2008 |
Q: Got a question. Lets say that a married woman is interested in you sexually but you know that it is ...
A: H Mahabir, I would say trust your gut, if you feel you might get caught up in some crazy drama then ...
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| Re: Jealousy with swinging | 4/20/2008 |
Q: My husband and i are trying swinging and we found a couple that is almost perfect. We all get along ...
A: Sam, It is time for you & your husband to step back and focus on the important relationship, you ...
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| First time hosting newbie couple | 4/18/2008 |
Q: we have been corresponding with each other for a few weeks now first via email then cell phone and ...
A: Charlie, We would suggest changing drinks then dinner, then head over to the house. Once there ...
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| What is wrong with you? | 4/18/2008 |
Q: Why on earth would you think it's ok to tell my THIRTEEN year old daughter to proposition our new ...
A: While I have no idea who you are or who your daughter is, I can tell you I have NEVER knowingly told ...
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| swinger nightclubs? | 4/18/2008 |
Q: Are there any swinger nightclubs in the washington dc area that might host a gathering or so during ...
A: Welby, Since I am not familiar with the clubs in the D.C. area, the only suggestion I can make is ...
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| ORAL | 4/17/2008 |
Q: My new neighbor across the street is really cute. I want to break into his house and wake him up ...
A: Suzie, I cannot morally or ethically assist in anyway with breaking & entering. With that said . . ...
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| closed swinging | 4/16/2008 |
Q: My girlfriend and I have been talking about swinging for a few months and we would like to try it - ...
A: Chris, There is NOTHING wrong with you. Everyone has different tastes. What I would suggest is to ...
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| Orgy Lifestyle | 4/9/2008 |
Q: My wife and I are are having trouble starting this hobby we want. Tried craigs list, tried ...
A: Mark, Are you using Google for your search engine, that may explain the differences in our search ...
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| First Time Swinging | 4/8/2008 |
Q: My girlfriend and I have a very good sexual relationship. We are very willingly and happily ...
A: Edgar, Just a heads up what you are talking about is swinging but, it doesn't sound like you are ...
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| To please my swinging BF | 4/4/2008 |
Q: I tired swinging with my live in boy friend a year ago. I didn't like being with woman and some men ...
A: Lisa, I can only suggest that the two of you talk, ALOT. Sit down with him & paint him a picture ...
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| Swinging with a touch of PE | 4/3/2008 |
Q: My wife and I are seriously considering getting involved with the lifestyle. We're very happily ...
A: Ted, For starters, Congratulations, I believe you two will find this to be a very enjoyable ...
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| To please my swinging BF | 3/29/2008 |
Q: I tired swinging with my live in boy friend a year ago. I didn't like being with woman and some men ...
A: Deva, If swinging is not for you then you should not do it just to please someone else. The most ...
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| need advice | 3/28/2008 |
Q: how can i get my wife to have sex with another man. i have a secret desire to watch her take a huge ...
A: Tom, I would suggest starting very slowly. First by letting her know it is safe for her to discuss ...
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| Wife Sharing | 3/27/2008 |
Q: I am a 40 year old guy in good health, my wife is 32 and very attractive, we have a very good ...
A: William, Since you are asking this question of someone who is an active member of the swinging ...
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| HOW TO GET STARTED | 3/18/2008 |
Q: I AM INTERESTED IN THE SWINGER LIFESTYLE BUT DON'T KNOW HOW TO GET STARTED? I HAVE EXPERIMENTED WITH ...
A: TATA, Ok, here are your options (of which there are MANY): 1.You can build a profile online with ...
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| Newbie Swinger | 3/8/2008 |
Q: I have been officially a swinger for only about three months, after having to seek more exciting sex ...
A: M, You state 'after having to seek more exciting sex outside my marriage'. My first question to you ...
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