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| Subject | Date Asked | Expert |
| Doing the right thing? | 12/4/2011 | Guycurious |
| Q: I am a 24 year old male, 5'9", 200 lbs. My problem is somewhat of an embarrassing one which is why I ... A: With pornography the bar always needs to be raised to achieve the same level of arousal. At first, ... | ||
| Taken the wrong decision? | 12/4/2011 | Michael Andrews |
| Q: I am a 24 year old male, 5'9", 200 lbs. My problem is somewhat of an embarrassing one which is why I ... A: To be honest I think you have nothing to worry about. I think you'll find that when you do meet ... | ||
| Revisit the Question | 12/1/2011 | Guycurious |
| Q: Recently my girlfriend initiated the topic of swinging. She started off by making me "promise not ... A: Tell her you thought further about the idea and now you're interested. If she says no way, then let ... | ||
| Unhappy with our options.. | 11/30/2011 | Michael Andrews |
| Q: my husband and I have been together 8 years and in the lifestyle for 2. We have always stuck to our ... A: I don't think you should feel bad about questioning your ground rules. But I also think you need to ... | ||
| jealousy.... | 11/25/2011 | Guycurious |
| Q: It is so hard to accept that my boyfriend desires other women.... how can I get over it? I told him ... A: My wife knows I desire other women sexually but my heart belongs to her and her alone. For us sex ... | ||
| Boiling blood and hurt feelings | 11/24/2011 | Guycurious |
| Q: I need advice....My partner and I are middle aged and have been together going on five years. A few ... A: All relationships become comfortable after some time and people delve into the lifestyle hoping it ... | ||
| mfm | 11/7/2011 | Michael Andrews |
| Q: My wife and I have been swinging for 8 years,by now nothing bothers us,we have no jealousy etc We ... A: Tricky situation. It certainly seems on the face of it that things have moved beyond the swinging ... | ||
| guilt for cheating on husband | 10/23/2011 | Michael Andrews |
| Q: My story starts with my husband always asking me to flirt with other men. I am 50 years old and this ... A: How lucky you are that you could tell you husband everything..... you must have a great ... | ||
| Shy and Nervous Newbie Wife | 10/13/2011 | Guycurious |
| Q: I need your help in understanding what my wife REALL MEANS, when she says MAYBE to swinging. My ... A: I think your wife is trying to indulge your fantasies but in a safe manner only. She knows you want ... | ||
| bad first experience | 9/9/2011 | Michael Andrews |
| Q: I was the one who went to my husband with my thoughts and fantasies of being with another women , of ... A: Swinging is a great way to deepen your connection and love with your spouse or partner - but if you ... | ||
| Cheating | 8/14/2011 | Guycurious |
| Q: My wife and I have been in the swing lifestyle since January this year. We met a couple (I'll call ... A: I agree with you, Don is cheating on his wife. The only way people can participate in the Lifestyle ... | ||
| Cheating | 8/14/2011 | Michael Andrews |
| Q: My wife and I have been in the swing lifestyle since January this year. We met a couple (I'll call ... A: a very tricky situation. I agree with you that he is definitely cheating. It really depends on your ... | ||
| I like this guy. | 7/30/2011 | Michael Andrews |
| Q: During the January, i like this guy in my school, but all along i didn't approach him. And during ... A: You really have two choices - go after him or decide you will find someone else. If you do want to ... | ||
| First time swinging | 7/21/2011 | Michael Andrews |
| Q: My wife (37) and I (47) have been married 14 years and been true and faithful to one another the ... A: I think you should have a thorough discussion with your wife and get the mindsets of both of you ... | ||
| Screeching Halt | 7/18/2011 | Guycurious |
| Q: My wife and I have had a few soft swap encounters before which were all pretty successful. Last ... A: Your leaving when the other girl left was exactly the right move to make. Obviously the other guy ... | ||
| Our friend | 7/16/2011 | Guycurious |
| Q: My wife(22) and I(28), have been married for 2yrs(Military Police partners for 4). We have a closer ... A: Sounds to me like the groundwork has already been laid for such an event. Seeks like there is a ... | ||
| Curious and confused about swinging | 7/11/2011 | Michael Andrews |
| Q: My boyfriend and I have been together for six years and he is the only person I have ever had sex ... A: what you're expressing is not all that uncommon so take heart! I think you will find that once ... | ||
| how much sex and people | 6/30/2011 | Guycurious |
| Q: I ask this yesterday but other expert just says to leave husband. I dont want to leave. Do I have ... A: I'm afraid I agree with the others who have already given you their opinions. Leave this guy ... | ||
| Swinging with friends | 6/14/2011 | Michael Andrews |
| Q: We are going to Desire Resort for the first time with another couple whom we've known since college, ... A: I think you should talk to your wife along the lines of what to do if you are in a situation you are ... | ||
| bf keeps questioning | 6/11/2011 | Michael Andrews |
| Q: My boyfriend and I have been in a relationship for 2years. We both have been talking about starting ... A: Very sorry for the delay in answering - computer problems! Many people, especially men, get a thrill ... | ||
| no idea what i should do | 6/3/2011 | Michael Andrews |
| Q: I am hoping that you can help me with an issue i am facing. I (D) am 27 years old and so is my wife ... A: Hmmm... slightly tricky. You obviously made a simple mistake and it didn't go anywhere so that's ... | ||
| Blindsided by a Threesome last night | 6/2/2011 | Michael Andrews |
| Q: My new fiance was a swinger with his exwife. I on the other hand, had plain ole vanilla sex. That ... A: sorry for the delay in getting back to you. I'm sorry to hear about such a bad experience for you ... | ||
| First time swingers | 6/1/2011 | Guycurious |
| Q: Me and my boyfriend have talked about swinging,and are both curious, the thing is were not sure if ... A: First step, sit down and have an open and honest conversation with each other. Talk about your ... | ||
| To have a threesome or not? | 6/1/2011 | Guycurious |
| Q: My fiancee and I have been together for about 2 and a half years now. We both are very sexual people ... A: Based on what you've told me I think it may be detrimental to your relationship to involve a third ... | ||
| curiosity on swingimg | 5/17/2011 | Michael Andrews |
| Q: I'm 60 years old , lots of energy and for the first time i was involved in fucking a lady with her ... A: There are lots of couples out there looking for single guys. The two main options are swingers clubs ... | ||
| Swinging | 5/15/2011 | Guycurious |
| Q: My wife and I are both interested in swinging, but we are both very self conscious, and overweight. ... A: You could place an ad on a site such as Craigslist. Also, I believe www.swinglifestyle.com will let ... | ||
| Gay relationship | 5/8/2011 | Michael Andrews |
| Q: my name is Aaron and im trying to find some advice other than that of my peers. Ive been in a ... A: It is never easy when someone doesn't return your affections when you care so much about them. You ... | ||
| Swinging | 5/7/2011 | Michael Andrews |
| Q: I started dating a guy about 5 months ago. Last month I found out he and his ex wife began swinging ... A: people get into swinging for all sorts of reasons but from my experience the only ones for whom it ... | ||
| im interested in it | 5/2/2011 | Michael Andrews |
| Q: can u submit my # to a swingers club or sites will some folks frome the longveiw, tyler texas areas ... A: Sorry, that's not the way swinging works...you will have to submit yourself and put up a profile. I ... | ||
| Honest to goodness | 4/29/2011 | Guycurious |
| Q: Three important keys to any relationship are communication, trust, honesty and the act of ... A: Stay away from the lifestyle at this juncture in your relationship. It takes a strong, committed ... | ||
| honest to goodness | 4/28/2011 | Michael Andrews |
| Q: Three important keys to any relationship are communication, trust, honesty and the act of ... A: Brian, your relationship sounds very complex and with a lot of pain. My answer will be brief - what ... | ||
| Honest to goodness | 4/28/2011 | Guycurious |
| Q: Three important keys to any relationship are communication, trust, honesty and the act of ... A: That was a heart breaking story to read. My advice is this. You have spent a lot of time and ... | ||
| Umm jealous much? | 4/25/2011 | Michael Andrews |
| Q: My wife and I have been married for 11 years. we have had our ups and downs through the years where ... A: There is obviously a lot of confusion in your relationship so I applaud you for seeking advice. ... | ||
| number of players: 2? | 4/3/2011 | Michael Andrews |
| Q: Let's start off with a little info. The husband and I have been together 11 years. We have three ... A: I think your husband's biggest fear is that swinging will be a threat to your relationship, and that ... | ||
| Swinging Jealousy Jitters | 3/31/2011 | Michael Andrews |
| Q: My husband and I have been married 20 years, we found the lifestyle looking for strip clubs and ... A: There are two types of swinging. The first is where a couple explore new sexual situations as a way ... | ||
| i'm jelous because of swinging and its hurting my relationship | 3/30/2011 | Michael Andrews |
| Q: I can't really explain my decision to start swinging with my partner. I guess I wanted him happy, I ... A: Can I be blunt - why are you staying in this relationship? If you are unhappy, you don't trust him ... | ||
| Swinging Lifestyle | 3/24/2011 | Michael Andrews |
| Q: My husband and I are swingers we've had two couples that we've played with for several years. We ... A: I'd suggest that it sounds like the old monster 'jealousy' is rearing up in your husband and ... | ||
| this is my first time | 3/21/2011 | Guycurious |
| Q: HELL I HAVE A FRIEND WHOM I VERY ATTRACTED TO.HE AND I HAVE BEEN DEALING NOW OVER A YEAR AND SOME ... A: I say, if both of you want to explore a threesome then go for it. Carpe Diem ! I would suggest ... | ||
| Playing alone | 3/21/2011 | Michael Andrews |
| Q: My husband and I have both had our first "alone" experience. Mine didn't go well, the guy couldn't ... A: You sum up many of the issues swinger couples face such as the difficulty in finding a mutually ... | ||
| Hubby interested in Wife we Met | 3/9/2011 | Guycurious |
| Q: My husband and I have been swinging for about four years, we are both 30. This past weekend we met a ... A: Based on what you've told me I'd be concerned about the blossoming "friendship". If you're ... | ||
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Michael Andrews
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Expertise
Couples sexuality, swinging, relationships
Experience
Speaker, author, publisher and workshop presenter in the areas of couples relationships and sexuality. Author of "How To Turn Your Partner Into a Swinger" and "The Sexless Marriage Cure", both available from Amazon Kindle bookstore.
Publications
Author, "How To Turn Your Partner Into a Swinger", available at www.swingwithyourwife.com.
Consulting editor, "Real Intimacy: the 9 Habits of Great Relationships", available at http://www.amazon.com/Real-Intimacy-Habits-Relationships-ebook/dp/B005MNTE8O/ref=sr_1_sc_1?s=digital-text&ie=UTF8&qid=1321502809&sr=1-1-spell
Free Report, "How to Reignite the Passion in Your Relationship" available from http://www.lovesexinstitute.com
Education/Credentials
MA (Hons), DipBus
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