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| Semen from 2 different lovers | 8/17/2006 | Anita Roberts |
Q: I have a regular lover besides my husband. My husband wants to make love to me after being with my ...
A: Supposing both men are healthy and have no STDs then you should be perfectly safe in having two men ...
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| Swinger | 8/15/2006 | Anita Roberts |
Q: My girlfriend and I have been going out for two years and one day she told me during intercourse ...
A: First buy her a dildo or better, take her shopping for one. That doesn't take a third party to ...
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| trying it out | 8/15/2006 | Anita Roberts |
Q: hey im joey, im married and have a daughter. I have thought about swinging ever since i had my first ...
A: The only way it will ever come about is if you talk to her about it. She has to know how you feel, ...
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| Swingers ID signal | 8/10/2006 | Mellisa |
Q: We are going away on a (cruise) holiday soon and wanted to know if there is any secret signal ...
A: Not that I am aware of, perhaps you should start one and let me know. Regards Mellisa ...
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| how can we...... | 8/7/2006 | Colorado Couple |
Q: im fernando, i am here to ask about advice on swinging, well i want to try it out, i have been ...
A: Fernando. We apologize for the lateness of our response to your question. We went on Vacation and ...
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| advice on a strange situation | 8/6/2006 | Mellisa |
Q: My best friend and her husband broke up over a year ago, and he moved away. They are not divorced ...
A: This really would not be classed as swinging, It would be an open relationship, which is totally ...
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| How to start? | 8/1/2006 | Anita Roberts |
Q: I am from india. Married. I want to start a Swinging Group or Club or an association. My wife doesnt ...
A: Karan, How do you start? With great difficulty, that's how. When you are part of a couple then ...
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| swinging | 7/24/2006 | Anita Roberts |
Q: my boyfriend and i,were on way to swing but before the sex could happen i ranaway. the couple ...
A: I am not sure what your question is but I will try to answer what I think you are asking. First, ...
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| How to start? | 7/5/2006 | Anita Roberts |
Q: We are a lesbian couple seeking to join or find a club where couples have the option of ...
A: There are many such clubs, depending on where you live. When you say other couples do you mean other ...
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| Swinging | 6/28/2006 | Mellisa |
Q: I am married man with two kids and we are fairly satisfied with our sex life. My ex girlfriend is in ...
A: As i read your question it is not about swinging, swinging usually includes your partner to some ...
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| is this for us? | 6/11/2006 | Mellisa |
Q: i really would like to have sex with a woman, and he seems to be all for it.my question is how do ...
A: We all have to start somewhere and no its not easy. Finding a single woman is one of the hardest ...
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| Attracted to our neighbors | 5/15/2006 | Anita Roberts |
Q: My husband and I have been in the lifestyle for approx 5 years. I am 36 and he is 37. We are busy ...
A: This is a tough question and no mistake. It is indeed a very delicate situation and will require ...
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| frist time with couple | 5/12/2006 | Anita Roberts |
Q: me and my wife have been fooling around with the idea of being with another couple were on the same ...
A: Of course you'll feel weird the first time. I think every man feels that way the first time he sees ...
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| Starting a swinging publication | 4/22/2006 | Mellisa |
Q: I would love to start a swinging publication in my area, how do I go about finding a fan base in the ...
A: this is defiantly a hard question and i can see that it hasn't been attempted by anyone yet, so i ...
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| bi-male swing/vouyerism | 4/20/2006 | Anita Roberts |
Q: I am 45 and single. I am bi and enjoy sex with transexuals also. I have never "swung". I am looking ...
A: John, I apologize for the late answer. Have your tried online swingers sites such as ...
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| Anita, | 4/13/2006 | Anita Roberts |
Q: I am writing to see if you can give me some advice, my husband would like to see me and another ...
A: I will assume in this answer that you are not now a swinger, that is, you and your husband do not at ...
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| swinging..... | 2/24/2005 | Anita Roberts |
Q: I really want to be in the swinging lifestyle with my boyfriend, but I am really scared too. Its not ...
A: brittanni, Believe it or not there is less cheating among swingers than among the general ...
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| WIDOWS THAT ARE LONELY | 1/24/2005 | Anita Roberts |
Q: WHERE CAN I GET THE ADDRESS OF WIDOWS THAT ARE LONELY AND WANT TO SWING FOR A LITTLE WHILE ...
A: Tim, I'm not sure that I should give you the information you are asking for. You appear to be ...
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| jealousy after first swing experience | 1/17/2005 | Anita Roberts |
Q: My husband forwarded this to me so that I could see both his question and your answer. As always, ...
A: You have cleared up some questions in my mind and corrected some of my assumptions. My only advice ...
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| Having sex for the first time | 1/15/2005 | Anita Roberts |
Q: MY fiance and I have been together for 4 years and are talking about having sex for the first time ...
A: Jodi, There are a couple of things you can try. A little research is called for. Find a full copy ...
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| jealousy after first swing experience | 1/11/2005 | Anita Roberts |
Q: Anita, Hi we tried the swinging bit one time and it did not go very well. I will start at the ...
A: Milam, Without knowing or talking to you and your wife, this is a tough problem to solve. But I ...
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| How to make my wife go for swinging | 12/26/2004 | Anita Roberts |
Q: I am writing to you from India.I am 37 & my cute wife is 30.I want to start swinging and my wife is ...
A: I'm sorry but the only thing you can do is ask her. It might be possible to discuss swinging after ...
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| Starters? | 12/13/2004 | Anita Roberts |
Q: What exactly is swinging? I'm interested but worried I may look crazy if I bring it up to others. I ...
A: Basically, swinging is sex with strangers. To be a little more specific, sex with one or more people ...
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| Starting swinging | 11/12/2004 | Anita Roberts |
Q: How could I get my wife to go swinging? She has had a girl on girl experience before and she gets ...
A: I think you should definitely try swinging. She sounds eager for more girl/girl experience. As for ...
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| gettign started | 10/15/2004 | Anita Roberts |
Q: I am a 35 yr old single male interested in getting started in the swinging lifestyle. What is it? ...
A: Todd, Getting started in the swinging Lifestyle depends mainly on your connections. And don't ...
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| Bio-chemical Swinging Reasons/ starting | 10/11/2004 | Jeff & Kris Booth |
Q: My partner and I (boyfrien/ girlfriend) are testing the "swinging waters." However, as with many ...
A: Yes, there is an excellent book called "The Lifestyle" by Terry Gould. It explains the biochemical ...
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| age and swinging | 10/9/2004 | Anita Roberts |
Q: At age 58 I find myself alone and without a female partner. I have always enjoyes the swinging ...
A: Well, they do say that it pays to advertise. Probably the best way to find someone is to join the ...
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| starting swinging | 9/1/2004 | Jeff & Kris Booth |
Q: how can i get my wife interested in swinging. want to start off light, same room sex...etc.
A: You can't talk her into doing it. If she has an interest in uppping the sexual ante a little, then ...
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| swinging | 8/31/2004 | Jeff & Kris Booth |
Q: i want to fuck another women in front of my wife. while she is fucking another man. i just dont know ...
A: First time swinging with another inexperienced couple does not always work out, although it can. It ...
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| wife | 8/31/2004 | Jeff & Kris Booth |
Q: My wife wanted to get back into swinging, after almost a two year pause. The first party we ...
A: You can't really get people to do sexually what they don't want to do, not without creating ...
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| Want to meet other couples | 8/29/2004 | Jeff & Kris Booth |
Q: Jeff & Kris, I'm a single straight guy in Southern California and I'd like to meet up with other ...
A: Unfortunatly, there are lots of guys like you, and very little demand. 90 percent of the couples ...
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| wife | 8/23/2004 | Jeff & Kris Booth |
Q: My wife wanted to get back into swinging, after almost a two year pause. The first party we ...
A: This is an area that causes a lot of friction between couples, when one of them begins to develop an ...
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| Friends with benefits taking a tough turn | 8/17/2004 | Jeff & Kris Booth |
Q: My wife and I have swapped with a couple 4 times now and have enjoyed the experience. We've been ...
A: If you took out the sexual component of this relationship it would still be a troubled friendship. ...
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| curious about swinging | 8/16/2004 | Anita Roberts |
Q: My live in boyfriend and I are curious about swinging. We have talked about it a bunch of times and ...
A: Leslie, Go for it. I believe you will enjoy being in a threesome. One thing though. Talk to your ...
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| Asking wife about swinging | 8/11/2004 | Jeff & Kris Booth |
Q: Kris, One of my wife's worries, is that it will damage our relationship, that what we have will be ...
A: You can't talk her into doing it. If she has an interest in uppping the sexual ante a little, then ...
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| Cuckold/Interracial Fantasy | 7/31/2004 | Jeff & Kris Booth |
Q: I fantasize non stop about my pretty blonde wife getting taken and ravaged by a big black stud. ...
A: It is quite normal and quite common. It does not always work out quite as well in fantasy as ...
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| Safe Sex | 7/31/2004 | Jeff & Kris Booth |
Q: I signed up for adultfriendfinder.com which is a site that gets people together for sex. I'm ...
A: The following is not medical advice, but there is no 100% way to eliminate all risk in any sexual ...
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| Getting started | 7/18/2004 | Jeff & Kris Booth |
Q: My boyfriend and I are interested in getting involved in swinging, but we don't really know where to ...
A: Its not always easiest to get started with friends (all that does happen for some people). It is ...
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| Doubt | 6/21/2004 | Jeff & Kris Booth |
Q: This is the situation: I'm 25, my gf is 30, we've been together for 2 years now, we get along ...
A: Yes, she probably really is sincere, and if you want to lose her, pressuring her into something she ...
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| Help :) | 6/19/2004 | Jeff & Kris Booth |
Q: I am struggling with getting started into swinging. My b/f and I have a terrific sex life, and we ...
A: If you weren't a little nervous and afraid, I'd be worried. Of course you would be. You are talking ...
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