| Subject | Date Asked | Expert |
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| Ref: question | 4/21/2008 | Analisa |
Q: Got a question. Lets say that a married woman is interested in you sexually but you know that it is ...
A: H Mahabir, I would say trust your gut, if you feel you might get caught up in some crazy drama then ...
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| Re: Jealousy with swinging | 4/20/2008 | Analisa |
Q: My husband and i are trying swinging and we found a couple that is almost perfect. We all get along ...
A: Sam, It is time for you & your husband to step back and focus on the important relationship, you ...
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| First time hosting newbie couple | 4/18/2008 | Analisa |
Q: we have been corresponding with each other for a few weeks now first via email then cell phone and ...
A: Charlie, We would suggest changing drinks then dinner, then head over to the house. Once there ...
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| What is wrong with you? | 4/18/2008 | Analisa |
Q: Why on earth would you think it's ok to tell my THIRTEEN year old daughter to proposition our new ...
A: While I have no idea who you are or who your daughter is, I can tell you I have NEVER knowingly told ...
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| swinger nightclubs? | 4/18/2008 | Analisa |
Q: Are there any swinger nightclubs in the washington dc area that might host a gathering or so during ...
A: Welby, Since I am not familiar with the clubs in the D.C. area, the only suggestion I can make is ...
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| ORAL | 4/17/2008 | Analisa |
Q: My new neighbor across the street is really cute. I want to break into his house and wake him up ...
A: Suzie, I cannot morally or ethically assist in anyway with breaking & entering. With that said . . ...
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| closed swinging | 4/16/2008 | Analisa |
Q: My girlfriend and I have been talking about swinging for a few months and we would like to try it - ...
A: Chris, There is NOTHING wrong with you. Everyone has different tastes. What I would suggest is to ...
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| Orgy Lifestyle | 4/9/2008 | Analisa |
Q: My wife and I are are having trouble starting this hobby we want. Tried craigs list, tried ...
A: Mark, Are you using Google for your search engine, that may explain the differences in our search ...
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| First Time Swinging | 4/8/2008 | Analisa |
Q: My girlfriend and I have a very good sexual relationship. We are very willingly and happily ...
A: Edgar, Just a heads up what you are talking about is swinging but, it doesn't sound like you are ...
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| To please my swinging BF | 4/4/2008 | Analisa |
Q: I tired swinging with my live in boy friend a year ago. I didn't like being with woman and some men ...
A: Lisa, I can only suggest that the two of you talk, ALOT. Sit down with him & paint him a picture ...
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| Swinging with a touch of PE | 4/3/2008 | Analisa |
Q: My wife and I are seriously considering getting involved with the lifestyle. We're very happily ...
A: Ted, For starters, Congratulations, I believe you two will find this to be a very enjoyable ...
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| To please my swinging BF | 3/29/2008 | Analisa |
Q: I tired swinging with my live in boy friend a year ago. I didn't like being with woman and some men ...
A: Deva, If swinging is not for you then you should not do it just to please someone else. The most ...
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| need advice | 3/28/2008 | Analisa |
Q: how can i get my wife to have sex with another man. i have a secret desire to watch her take a huge ...
A: Tom, I would suggest starting very slowly. First by letting her know it is safe for her to discuss ...
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| Wife Sharing | 3/27/2008 | Analisa |
Q: I am a 40 year old guy in good health, my wife is 32 and very attractive, we have a very good ...
A: William, Since you are asking this question of someone who is an active member of the swinging ...
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| HOW TO GET STARTED | 3/18/2008 | Analisa |
Q: I AM INTERESTED IN THE SWINGER LIFESTYLE BUT DON'T KNOW HOW TO GET STARTED? I HAVE EXPERIMENTED WITH ...
A: TATA, Ok, here are your options (of which there are MANY): 1.You can build a profile online with ...
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| Newbie Swinger | 3/8/2008 | Analisa |
Q: I have been officially a swinger for only about three months, after having to seek more exciting sex ...
A: M, You state 'after having to seek more exciting sex outside my marriage'. My first question to you ...
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| Sudden surprising proposal | 10/28/2007 | Scotto |
Q: Two of my best friends were gay couple and, not too long ago, they accidentally walked in on me when ...
A: Karen, no way would I do this if I were in your shoes. If they are good looking like you say and ...
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| Swinging | 10/27/2007 | Scotto |
Q: How can I introduce my wife to the idea of swinging? We are both very sexual and love sex. We both ...
A: Communication communication communication. Have a conversation re: your fantasies and things you ...
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| hi | 10/27/2007 | Scotto |
Q: does Marcos love me?
A: The only way to really tell is by getting a daisy and start pulling each petal off. When you pull ...
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| What is it about solo play that makes me so uncomfortable? | 10/24/2007 | Scotto |
Q: My wife and I have been involved in swinging for the past three years - we both really enjoy it and ...
A: Gosh I don't know the psychology of what makes you feel this way. What I do know is that it is very ...
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| New to swinging | 10/24/2007 | Scotto |
Q: My b/f and I have been discussing for months about doing a mff or joining a couple. We met a couple ...
A: This is easy--if you aren't sure then don't go or go only with the strict interpretation beforehand ...
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| Wife sharing | 10/21/2007 | Scotto |
Q: For several years now, I have had this uncontrollable fantasy of either wanting to watch my wife ...
A: The fantasy is common although I have never seen empirical studies showing specific quantifiable ...
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| Involved with a Former Swinger | 10/20/2007 | Scotto |
Q: My fiance was involved in the "lifestyle" for a number of years. For him it was NSA sex while for ...
A: Oh ouch ouch ouch on so many levels here. Why don't you set up a profile on some of the sites and ...
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| Confused | 10/15/2007 | Scotto |
Q: My husband and I have been swinging for over a year. We have only been involved with a few couples. ...
A: Well heck yes its cheating. It is still violating the trust. You could do a lot of things but one ...
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| Young and interested in Swinging | 10/11/2007 | Scotto |
Q: I am only twenty and considering i am my sexual prime want to explore. I signed up ...
A: You'll need a lot of patience and to be 150% polite and a gentleman. The problem with single guys ...
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| My husband's reaction | 10/8/2007 | Scotto |
Q: We recently went to a swinger club. We were in a room and into each other when a couple started to ...
A: Annie, his reaction was very normal in that even when both partners are fully on board to swinging ...
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| i want to watch my wife have sex with other men badly | 10/3/2007 | Scotto |
Q: My wife 23 very attractive and i 25. Well my question is the following i have been having fantasies ...
A: Wow--I have to ask why this same day response merits a 7 out of 10. We are just people that do this ...
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| Question | 10/1/2007 | Scotto |
Q: I would like to know how I can find a swinging club/lounge in the Orlando area? My boyfriend and I ...
A: Honestly this is an easy question. You could join a site like swappernet.com or lifestylelounge.com ...
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| But, how do you get started? | 9/30/2007 | Scotto |
Q: My wife and I have been together for seven years. We have a great relationship - excellent ...
A: sorry for the tardiness of this reply. I think you are dead on if she is okay with it to go to a ...
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| Watching | 9/27/2007 | Scotto |
Q: My wife and I would like to explore swinging as an outlet to release and experience our sexuality, ...
A: You will see all kinds of people at swinger parties including people doing exactly as you describe. ...
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| How to do it?! | 9/19/2007 | Scotto |
Q: My wife and I are interested in swinging, very much. We've talked at length about it and we're ...
A: why not try swappernet.com or swinglifestyle.com as alternative sites. They are full of couples and ...
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| 1st time and nervous | 9/19/2007 | Scotto |
Q: My husband and I have met a couple online, had cam sex with them, met them in person last week, and ...
A: I am not a 100% sure of your first question. Do you mean would it be okay to be with the other ...
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| Question about swinging as a couple... | 9/18/2007 | Scotto |
Q: I have a question. My husband and I have been on a swinger web site trying to meet new exciting ...
A: First, ask him how badly he wants to be with other women. I'd guess that its not on his "to do" ...
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| please advice me? | 9/12/2007 | Scotto |
Q: im 23 years old, i just want to asked is it normal if i not got bleed on my first sex to my ...
A: You are correct. Some women do not bleed at all while others bleed a small amount and some bleed ...
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| swinging | 9/8/2007 | Scotto |
Q: I get really turned on thinking of watching my wife being with another guy. Is that wrong? I have ...
A: No, it isn't wrong. Men are visual creatures more so than women are. Funny thing with women is ...
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| woes | 9/6/2007 | Scotto |
Q: this isnt really totally about swinging but i couldnt find a more relevent section to my problems. ...
A: Hey now is the time to discuss yours AND her expectations of your relationship. If sex 10 times a ...
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| Broaching the subject | 8/24/2007 | Scotto |
Q: How does one broach the subject with a spouse? I live in China and have been married a very short ...
A: No question that some marriages function this way. Call it an open marriage--however. You ...
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| Swinging and STDs | 8/16/2007 | Scotto |
Q: My wife and I want to swing softly, but are afraid of STDs (all of them). She practiced sucking on ...
A: good questions but you already know the answer. The only true safe sex is in a 100% monogamous ...
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| Guy for the wife | 8/9/2007 | Cameron |
Q: To keep this brief, I am going to attempt to find a guy that both my wife and I would approve of for ...
A: I would suggest make sure your wife is ready to fuck anoher man. If she is not dont force her. I ...
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| swinging/group sex | 8/6/2007 | Cameron |
Q: I'm 36, married, and we have had a pretty normal sex life up until a few months ago. We went on a ...
A: glad to hear you had a great vacation and opened up sexaully. Do not bother of what your town will ...
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